I have a question. I recently had sex with a friend of mine but he came quickly(5-10 mins) He says that that isn't the normal. He said it was because I was too wet. This has happened with more than one guy. I thought being wet was a good thing. How can i fix this problem.
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Too Wet????
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its not your problem and you are fine. Your bf is just making excuses to cover up the fact that he cums too quick. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a wet vagina even if you think its too wet. Most guys prefer it wet too, i know i do. You being wet has nothing to do with him cumming so quickly, he's just extra sensitive.
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really thanx for ur help
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That makes absolutely no sense. If you were very lubricated, he should have taken longer to ejaculate. Anyway, 5 to 10 minutes is within the average range.It sounds like that guy is quite ignorant. You did nothing wrong.
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WHAT!! 5 to 10 minutes is within the average range!!!???isn't that just too quick ? and ppl call it average ??!!
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People don't just "call" it average. Studies (or surveys) have been done with real-life men, and that was the result.
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lol.i faught 3mins Was avarage. it takes me 3mins to bust up a womens pussy full of cumn
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Lol, no, the average is about 5-10minutes. First time male virgins may be earlier, but the average 'time frame', or ideal time I guess, would be 10mintues or so.And too wet sounds funny. Your friend came at the 'expected time of arrival', but it sounds as if he wasnt sure of himself. Maybe your just that damn good? . Lol
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5-10 minutes seems to be about the average time from what I've heard also. Actually 10 minutes seems to be a stretch from what I've heard from various women. Personally I think guys should strive to able to last longer, unless its really ok with whomever they are with. Some guys are really turned on by the wetness, you'd be surprised. I can believe that he got so turned on by it and couldn't hold back, but I don't buy the fact it had something to do with you, as in it being your fault. No matter how good guys are at holding back their ejacualtions, even the best can have trouble holding back occasionally. Stuff happens!
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So your saying if 5-10 minutes is the average, then those guys who say they can go 2 hours are full of it?
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Jesus-There is now ay I would want sex for more than 10 minutes unless it was really slow cos you just get knackered. It can also get kinda boring no matter how good it feels, especially if you just want to orgasm and then enjoy the after effects and relax. 10 minutes is a good long stretch for me and from the women I've spoken to. There is nothing wrong with being wet, and if this guy is blaming you he is a prick. (No offense) How would he like it if you weren't wet at all and bust his cock trying to get it in? May not sound pleasant at all to you, but if thats what he wants he must be a bit weird. Find a normal guy who won't blame you for his lack of control over his own cumming powers!
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Not everyone is average, and some men can control it pretty well, but I think two hours of intercourse would be uncomfortable for most women.
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I don't believe that 5-10 minutes is average unless you’re a virgin or haven't had sex in a really long time.... That's sad like some one minute man shit going on. My men take up to 30-45 to cum and if they don’t then they should give me some oral sex so I can cum. Oh and I don't really think there is a thing of being to wet cause is better than being dry and hurting you right?
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You sleep with old men or extraordinary young men.
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I sleep with guys 17 to 21 years old why? Does age make a difference on how fast a man has an orgasm?
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Younger generally equals quicker.
You should insure your little black book against loss...it's quite valuable.
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I know it is I only play naked twister with fine big black guys :wink:
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**5 - 10 minutes is average.........in my opinion..........most guys last longer the second time, but even then, i think i would be doing something wrong if he lasted for ages and ages LOL **
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a good way to start out is whith a little foreplay let him get you sooooo excited that your ready to pop before you even start to have intercourse it wont seem so short to you when he cums if your there with him. or you can try to post pone him a little by slowing things down when you feel his temperature rise, guys generally tend to "heat up" even start to sweat before they cum just make him relax a little or have him take it out and do a little oral on you. gives him some "cool down" time and if he's good at the oral part you'll cum with him when he goes back in. it's a win-win situation.
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In reply to:
So your saying if 5-10 minutes is the average, then those guys who say they can go 2 hours are full of it?
Yes, and not necessarily. I wonder how many males who spoke of the "two hour or longer" sessions, included the foreplay time. I agree, that two hours of constant pounding, might indicate a problem with him, and might pose some uncomfortability issues with the woman.