What Should I do?Guys and Girls opinion please.

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you can always explain to her that you care about her and that sex isnt something you are in a hurry to get into with her because she means more than that. I dunno say something sweet to get her mind off it so she doesnt think its her fault.

Good one abc....do as abc said. That is what you should do.

You are only 14. Just talk to her, and say that you dont want to rush things. Or something like that

I'm proud of you son! You did the right thing.

We definately were not thinking of having sex.I love my girlfreind,weve technically been going out since the 4th grade and Im entering my freshman year and I dont want anything to happen between us now of all times.So hopefully she lets this blow over because shes kicked my ass a few times over some of the stuff thats happend betweeen us.lol,she can be a bit brutal sometimes over dumb stuff.

Ypu just have to make sure she understands its not HER, you are just not ready for that kind of action yet. Really, maker see its nothing wrong with her, thats n1 in this thing. Also, well done, really

Wow! very proud of you! That's very awesome you had respect for your parents and for yourself. Like Java said you are still young, and you have years of experimenting ahead of you.Just make sure you reassure your GF that it is not her.Serious buddy you did the right thing and you should be very proud of yourself!

yeah, yeah, we're all proud you did the right thing, but, devils advocate here, wha?!? come on now!! you did miss your chance! reading that was like watching one of those plays in football were the qb runs around for 20 seconds behind the line praying not to get sacked looking for a receiver, then, no matter how much i hope he gets the pass off, gets blasted by the fattest guy on the other team, and i am left disapointed. but anyway, i would tell your girlfriend the truth, whatever it is you feel, just let her now. try not to reherse anything, that way it may come out sounding like something hugh grant would say, and chicks love him. if she was willing to go that far with you, she obviously likes you enough to understand where your coming from.

Ya, I was thinking that same thing hotspot.I did the right thing but was it really worht it?I smoothed things over with her now and she understands how we feel and that she made a mistake.It wasnt really HER mistake,im sure she thinks about me alot in that way too.She is just to easily seduced by her freiends that are all sexually active...any way, someday we will do what we almost did.

Thing is, would do you really think you woulda had sex? I don't think her just rubbing your dick is a huge crime.

Unless you consider that thier 14 years old... Exactly what Java said....You've got the rest of your life to 'fool around'.I probably sound like some nagging Mum saying this but, why can't kids just be kids...? (No offence chan, you sound very mature etc) but I think you did the right thing in stopping her in the long run methinks.

I can see why 14 y o are thinking about it, though. But rather small steps are better than just unbuttoning and get going. :P

Hmmm.btw swingcat, if thats you in your avater your very pretty.

Tihi, thank you very much dear sir :wink: Yup its me, alive and kicking!

my sis is hawt! D:

Aw :smile: But you have nicer hair!

he is gorgeous aint he, is his brother as good looking as he is?

I think you did the right thing. I mean, maybe nothing would have happened, but that might have encouraged you both to do something you might have regretted later on. It's good that you're thinking about keeping your parents trust and respecting yourself at the same time, seeing as most guys don't really give a damn most of the time. Well, that's what I've noticed about the guys around here. And so what if you passed up a chance? Would it have been better if something bad happened between you two because of that?

ForbidenArsenic,Those were the exact same words pretty much that I was thinking at the time.So I guess in cases like that,the rewards are really not worth the risks at my age.My biggest concern was what if she got pregnant,I know she probably wouldnt have and it wouldnt have been serious,but theres always that big "what if".

It's good that you think about the "what if" in some situations. In others, it might drag you down...But I think in this particular one, you did the right thing.