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Sex really isnt worth the consequences.. Personally I'd like to know how old y'all are..I started having sex fairly young.. At 16 I had sex with a man (when I say man, I do mean man.. Well.. Man age wise, I wouldnt say he was a man mentally hahaha!) and two weeks later I had sex with another man.. I havent had sex since.. It isnt worth it.You're obviously young.. If you want to have fun sexually with your girlfriend try other things.. Masturbation with one another, oral, or whatever.. You dont have to have intercourse to gain pleasure.. But.. If you are going to continue to have sex with her.. You may want to check on the birth control nonsense.. From what I understand (depending on where you live) young kids your age can simply walk into one of those clinics they have everywhere and get birth control and condoms for free.. So money shouldnt be an issue, check into that, or.. If you need help checking into it, PM me and let me know what city/state you live in (as long as thats not against the board rules.. which it may very well be.. but I think that only applies to stating your city/state/address in open discussion) and I'll do some research for ya.Stay safe.. We have enough babies having babies out there.. We dont need any more..AG

Thanks Gal, I live in Texas to =] Ill pm you soon.My girlfriend says she about to start her period because she said some discharge came out today. Im pretty sure it wasnt red/brown because if it was then she wouldve said that she STARTED already. And she said they she gets this everytime before her period is about to begin. Hopefully this is a good sign.

Check In:It has been almost two weeks since this awful incident and there have been no symtoms. Today she said she had to pee like crazy after school but she said that was her second time peeing and she drank a bottle of water before. She has a upset tummy but i think it went away. Gosh im frightened...

hmm..just out of curiosity what is the likely hood of being pregnat if you ejaculate and dont pee and have sex like 8 hrs later

sorry this post is kinda late..but girls ovulate(on average) 14 days into their cycle..(1st day of cycle=1st day of period)..so her period probabaly lasted a week or so...plus the 6-8 days..thats around 13-15 days into her cycle...BE CAREFUL...and make sure she gets birth control or you guys use condoms...that's cutting it really close..besides the "timing" method isnt accurate..girls cycles change all the time

hmm so what your saying to ryler that he didnt have it during her ovulation period? i would personally think that she isnt pregant because she hasnt shown signs of it yet and it has been 2 weeks..this is imo

YES!!!! She said she has been gettin her period symtoms and she is due for her period to. She is beraking out... have clear discahrge and tender breasts.. she said she really feels like starting.. thank you GOD!

well i mean more like..on average..girls ovulate 14 days into their cycle..and assuming she probabaly has a one week cycle like most girls do(give or take a few days) and he had sex about week after her period...then thats cutting it REALLY close to when she was probabaly ovulating

he said 4 days after he had sex and sperm lasts in the womb for like the max of 4-5 days thats only equals to like 8 - 9... 14 isnt close to 9.. is that what ur saying?

sorry i think im getting everyone confused..i really dont know how to expain this any better though..the first day of her period is the first day the "cycle" starts...ovulation on average takes place around the 14th day(2 weeks after 1st day of period)..so im assuming she has about a one week period(7 days) and he said they had sex 6-8 days afterwards..7+7=14...so she might of very well been ovulating or close to it..thats why i wrote to BE CAREFUL and always use a condom..but there shouldnt be any worries i guess since he posted about her about to get her periodsorry, ill try to make any future posts clearer..sometimes im writing so fast that i dont usually stop and think if other people will know what im trying to say

heh dread its all good u explained it pretty good im just thick headed :P

ugh im freakin being paranoid like crazy....im so scared..i just wish she would sTART

fuk... she said she had tender breasts and she was nipping... but she sed she always does that but i looked at websites and a pregancy symtoms are like period symtoms im so confused...

well if it makes you feel a little bit better..you posted on the 28th..(day you had sex) and you said she had her period about a week earlier..so if shes like most girls it takes about a month..so dont even worry if she gets her period until around the 22nd ..just becuase she had tender breats/other symptoms doesnt mean shes pregnant..us girls get symptoms of a period weeks in advance sometimes before it actually happend

yes still kinda scary,, the symtoms stopped thank you... man i really learned my lesson...

One of the lessons you guys didn't learn is the utility of a pregnancy test.

You guys still need to learn the utility of a pregnancy test, for the next crisis.

most pregnancy tests cant be accurate until about 5 days(i think..unless they made a new one)before the girls missed period

if it happens again you can go to Planned Parenthood www.plannedparenthood.com or look in the phone book(not sure if you live in the U.S or not..but if you do then your girlfriend can get the plan B pills there..no prescription..ive had a few accidents where condoms broke or slipped off and these pils have worked for me everytime

so her back is hurting for like 2 or 3 days? I read some articles and they said back pain is a symtom but only after like 2 months when the baby is acutally growing and visible. what the !@#$