Self esteem...

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I meant its just bad for self esteem i didnt say that heavy metal is bad.

"What music do you listen to?"I mainly liisten to Staind and Celldweller. But I also listen to techno, Josh Tobin's "I'm a Gangster", Scatman Jon, and MC Hammer. I just listen to what I think sounds good. I do listen to some metal (slipknot), but very rarely.

"slap a tittie or two, that cheers me up."Trust me, I would if I could but I have no g/f. I'm working on that though .

Hey I find it funny, if I think something sounds good or I think it's funny then I'll listen to it. There's nothing wrong with that.

Stop! Hammer Time!

In reply to: what a dumb suggestion Graphology, even though it's on the shady side of science, is the study of people's personality through handwriting. I know that some graphologists recommend that you underline your name when you write it to gain self-esteem.

Ok, here's some tips to help with your self-esteem. Maybe you need a little change, maybe in your appearance perhaps.1.) Start excercising more & get in shape! Having a nice body would make you feel more comfortable with yourself! Not only that but it's good for your health!2.)Eat healthier, studies show that people, feel & look better if eaten the proper diet. Take multi vitamins, eat plenty of fruits & vegetables.3.)Change your look.. Change your clothing style to something you like. Wear clothes that you'd feel comfortable in.It wouldn't hurt to be more fashionable if you're not already. Wear clothing that makes you look attractive.Plus wearing something nice does make you feel good.4.)Express yourself, get a new hairstyle or get something pierced or a tattoo.5.)Also go out more & be more sociable!

I basically agree with what you said, but if you eat a balanced diet, with plenty of fruit and vegetables, you can toss the multi-vitamins.

kthx!

i am going through the same thing. i have only positive ppl now in my life. i set goals even small ones and set out to do them.i care alot about what others think but have to also realize that what they think isn't what i think and they are intitled to it.i have started reading more books to help me understand why i feel the way i do.i excersise try and eat better.

i usually exersize, but ive become quite dependant on it, and its all i really look forward to now adays is going to the gym

I've gotten used to be a bottom feeder and i kinda like it now or at least acceptit. im , a stupid loner piece of shit till i die, soon hopefully, i thought of calling the cops and pointing a black spraypainted toy gun at them to end it

As Michael Douglas' character did in Falling Down?

"slap a tittie or two" that makes me laugh everytime i see it. Heavy-metal is not depressing that much if it is the only type of music you like. What would make me depressed is listing to music that talls about drugs or sex cuz then it would make me jealous then i would become insanely depressed.

Didn't see it, but I figure it's a good way to go. Last laugh is on my when the pigs find out it's a toy, but they'll probably just wipe off the handle of a real gun and put it in my hand after the realize their mistake.

i have the same problem as you. this has helped me so far. im only on week 3 right now but its getting better. good luckwww.self-confidence.co.uk