Well fat... you win. Congrats

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Dude you really need to stop looking at things in such a bad perspective, you just have to wait it out, get out there and talk to some people. It can be done, i should know. Im 'big' im shy (shitty attitude too, if your the right person) and i have a gf, things worked out for me i dont see how they cant with you

It just wont... there is a paradox of bad karma around my soul. Im just stating the facts though.

karma + soul = facts?Change your fucking attitude!!! That is all that matters! Fat people have friends, fat people have girlfriends. You're being a little shit head giving up like the world is over cause you couldn't do it the fist few times.And I know you didn't post this looking for advice, but what the fuck else do you want from us? Unless you're getting better or you aren't and want our help, then we don't care. You're not looking for anything from us and you're not helping anyone else, you're just bitching about how your problems are worse or that someone else in the world has it even worse. Big fucking whoop, we know that. It still doesn't change how that person's problem is effecting them.So ask for help, give help or fuck off. And before you reply with a witty remark of how this did nothing to change your thoughts, I know that you don't care about what I say nor do a lot of people, but there are people here looking for help and sometimes its serious, sometimes its not, but none of us have the all seeing power to make the decision about what is more important.Wow, not a chance that you'll read all that. But if you do, thanks.

yeah... since you knew i wouldnt care what you typed, then why did you spend all that time typing it? Im in a helpless mood and im enjoying it while it lasts.

Cause its natural instinct for people to imagine that what they do means something and that thought makes them feel good. So while your helplessness is making you feel good, my attempt at helping makes me feel good.And I'm drunk, but thats a different story.

Isn't this a waste of time, sparring with people whether or not you're a completely hopeless loser? You can get your own blog, free of charge, and you can post your thoughts, and keep everyone updated on how bad everything is. That way you won't have to deal with folks you don't want to deal with, and you can speak freely.Just a thought.

Bob : This was an attempt to help me? Come on now.

SteveA : I didn't force you to read my thread. In a sense, you read it, because you care to an extent. So there is no need for me to make a blog about it. Just a thought.

or, because he was bored and no one else was posting, Just a though.

because he was bored and no one else was postingI abhor a vacuum.CloudlessRane: So you're not just posting to vent? You really do care that people read about how unfulfilling your life is, but you're not interested in accepting any advice (which is actually the purpose of this forum)? If that's the case, then you must be looking for attention. Is your goal to get sympathy? If I told you I felt bad for you, would you just tell me to STFU, that my life must be 100 times better than yours?There's nothing wrong with seeking attention, but it just doesn't make sense to do it on a forum like this. If you want communicate in one direction, a blog would make more sense. Unless you want to be heard by people on this Web site. If that's the case, then...why?

Lol... sure... ill take advice. But if you just tell me how low i really am, which isnt advice, ill just let you know that you aren't doing anything for me other then stating a simple fact. Ok, my life sucks, i know that already. Keep reinstating that and ill just give you the same shit. Its a vicous cycle.

Everyone has tried to help you, not just say your life is shite. We have given you advice, improve your attitude. Try to be happier, do things that will make you happy. Its you who dismisses our advice and just gives us shit in return.

Life sucks and then you die.

I'm not sure what advice you want, but it's pretty clear that you're not going to find it here. You're options are to try elsewhere, or to get some professional help. We amateurs have our limitations.What does exchanging insults with other people buy you, in terms of fixing your problem? It doesn't make you thinner, more attractive, more interesting, or nicer, and it (presumably) doesn't make you feel better about yourself. What's the point? Do you think that one day, some a amzaing person will come across one of your threads with a magic solution for you?Sometimes people act obnxious to (subconsciously) prove their point about their self-image. They make people not like them. Are you like that in real life?

haha... yeah... just tell me to run 30 miles a day and 'find something that makes you happier', yeah, sounds a lot like my school counselor.

You want advice? Here it is: Be Fat. Be a loser drop out of school, that will give you more to complain about. NEVER HAVE SEX. Never be happy, You're going to die eventually anyways right? I think you should sit on your couch and eat hohos and twinkies all day long, buy stock in little debby while your at it cause, well lets face it with you alone their stock will rise.How did that make you feel, Now which do you like better people being nice or harshly mean. Which one makes you want to be a better person?

Your school counselor is not a professional psychotherapist.You may think you're unique, but you are definitely not. There are countless teens who have self-image issues like you do. You could set yourself apart from some of them by actually trying to do something about it. No one can force you, though. The idea of exercising every day, and keeping up with it, is a very good idea, in any case. It's not a cure for your f*cked up life, but it's a start. You have to start somewhere.Your complaining and excuses are bullshit. You need to go do something, like getting professional counseling. There are overweight guys who have fine social lives, so you can't hang all of your issues on that. Do your parents have any idea how messed up you feel?In any case, you're not going to get any better advice than what you've already received. Does the attention itself make you feel better?

I've tried.... I've really tried hard... but I think it's time for me to accept my faith, which is being a fat ugly loser who will never experience intimacy. Thanks for all your help though. How much weight have you lost and how much time have you spent working at losing weight? If you think it isn't working becuase it's going too slow, then you need some patience. If you want a quick fix then get lipo-suction (I don't know if I spelled that correctly :x)Have you been getting with a personal trainer at least once a month? Have you even talked to your doctor about losing weight? You should.If you've failed at losing weight, you obviously haven't done it correctly.

Java, once again, fails again. You make my school counselor look professional. Thats pathetic, try again?

Java, once again, fails again. You make my school counselor look professional. Thats pathetic, try again?Get professional help.

That's all you have to say? Please get professional health. Your school counselor is not getting the job done.