I'm not sure what advice you want, but it's pretty clear that you're not going to find it here. You're options are to try elsewhere, or to get some professional help. We amateurs have our limitations.What does exchanging insults with other people buy you, in terms of fixing your problem? It doesn't make you thinner, more attractive, more interesting, or nicer, and it (presumably) doesn't make you feel better about yourself. What's the point? Do you think that one day, some a amzaing person will come across one of your threads with a magic solution for you?Sometimes people act obnxious to (subconsciously) prove their point about their self-image. They make people not like them. Are you like that in real life?
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Well fat... you win. Congrats
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haha... yeah... just tell me to run 30 miles a day and 'find something that makes you happier', yeah, sounds a lot like my school counselor.
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You want advice? Here it is: Be Fat. Be a loser drop out of school, that will give you more to complain about. NEVER HAVE SEX. Never be happy, You're going to die eventually anyways right? I think you should sit on your couch and eat hohos and twinkies all day long, buy stock in little debby while your at it cause, well lets face it with you alone their stock will rise.How did that make you feel, Now which do you like better people being nice or harshly mean. Which one makes you want to be a better person?
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Your school counselor is not a professional psychotherapist.You may think you're unique, but you are definitely not. There are countless teens who have self-image issues like you do. You could set yourself apart from some of them by actually trying to do something about it. No one can force you, though. The idea of exercising every day, and keeping up with it, is a very good idea, in any case. It's not a cure for your f*cked up life, but it's a start. You have to start somewhere.Your complaining and excuses are bullshit. You need to go do something, like getting professional counseling. There are overweight guys who have fine social lives, so you can't hang all of your issues on that. Do your parents have any idea how messed up you feel?In any case, you're not going to get any better advice than what you've already received. Does the attention itself make you feel better?
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I've tried.... I've really tried hard... but I think it's time for me to accept my faith, which is being a fat ugly loser who will never experience intimacy. Thanks for all your help though. How much weight have you lost and how much time have you spent working at losing weight? If you think it isn't working becuase it's going too slow, then you need some patience. If you want a quick fix then get lipo-suction (I don't know if I spelled that correctly :x)Have you been getting with a personal trainer at least once a month? Have you even talked to your doctor about losing weight? You should.If you've failed at losing weight, you obviously haven't done it correctly.
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Java, once again, fails again. You make my school counselor look professional. Thats pathetic, try again?
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Java, once again, fails again. You make my school counselor look professional. Thats pathetic, try again?Get professional help.
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That's all you have to say? Please get professional health. Your school counselor is not getting the job done.
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Why get professional help when I have Java Addict?
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But... if you insist on me getting help, i'll need payments for it. I accept money orders and paypal- no joke.
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You have 2 choices.... live life the way it is now and accept that that is the way it is, or change it.
To change it you will need to get off the sofa and DO something about it, rather than just whine on here, or any other forum. Quit harassing people who are genuinely trying to help you.
Your posts do not sound like you want help, you just want to whine. Fine, whine all you like.. but don't be surprised at being ignored when you do.
As for asking for money.. I think the words are: dream on sunshine!!
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There are no social services where you live? If your school counselor can't point you to them, can he point you to someone who an point you to them? Do you have any parents who might care to get involved? Anyone else?It doesn't sound like you have whatever you need to do anything for yourself, so if you don't find a way to get help, you're pretty screwed. What more can anyone tell you?
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Go on the show the biggest loser
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"I've tried.... I've really tried hard... but I think it's time for me to accept my faith, which is being a fat ugly loser who will never experience intimacy. Thanks for all your help though.".
Right On! Good luck let us know if your fate ever changes...
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Thats a pretty pathetic reason to hate your life to be honest. If stuff REALLY gets bad you will know about it. When stuff gets really bad you wont even have the effort to get out of bed and to your computer to post on here.
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Look all i can say is girls and guys are influenced on looks and no-one can say they dont think about it not even in the slightestbut on the other hand some people care about it more than others so you need to find someone who cares about you for who u are not what you look like ..and i totally agree you are not the only one who has a few extra pounds and although it seems now it makes all the difference to people to see someone trieng to lose weight and remeber beauty is painful it doesnt come over night just keep trying u'd also be benificial for some confidence in urself!! well i hope i helped and i am here to help!
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-I've tried.... I've really tried hard... but I think it's time for me to accept my faith, which is being a fat ugly loser who will never experience intimacy. Thanks for all your help though.
Stop with this need for sympathy, I'm 13 and i'm 260 pounds. Accept your fate that god gave you and make the best of it.
I'm half the size of a cow, yet I still flirt with girls at my school and I'm in a relationship. The last thing you need is to think that your fat is gonna ruin your life. Use
it as a way for people to remember you. Make the best out of your situation, express yourself and live your life as best as you can.(BTW: Get on a diet and stay to it, no matter how low weight loss you might be having, put it aside and keep working)
