Why do guys want to get..................

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I dont think that she is 19 either!!!

Why is it you people group guys as a whole? I mean the majority of guys I know and knew from 13-16 wouldn't even think of sex unless they knew they where in a sturdy relationship.But not all people are the same - as said before some people are just sex crazed. And I also agree that you give in way to easily to guys who say things like that if you do and also I don't really believe your 19 either.

**for my two penneth, you don't sound 19.

As for the questions, well im not in the age range, but i WAS one time. And i have to say that the responsability you mention is a 2 way thing, you should be saying no, if you don't want guys in your pants.......unless you like/crave that type of attention.

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Well here are some things guys might say to get in between your thighs.1) "Hey baby, is that a mirror in your pocket? Cause I can see myself in your pants."2) "I have a six inch tongue and I can breath through my ears. "3)"Hey baby, is that a keg in your pants? 'Cause I would like to tap that ass! "4)"How would you like your eggs for breakfast: scrambled, boiled or fertilized?"5)"You might as well sleep with me because I'm going to tell everybody we did it anyway."Uhm, I think if you're smart you can tell if a guy loves you and will stay with you. than a guy who just wants to do the deed. Good boys wanna be with their girlfriend, rarely initiates sex, even if he does he won't be all mad and pouty about the fact you wanna wait. If a man really loves you he would wanna wait with you. However a man can't wait forever...so yea. He would not push you to have sex. Asking to have sex is different from begging. Normally if you guys are really in love...he would most likely stay with you even after sex cause its not all about the sex. Guys wanna get in your pants because sex is fun, feels really good, and its wrong. I think that pretty much sums up why guys wanna do it. Oh yea, its also an ego booster. He just wants the pleasure not the consequences. Hey if girls could too we'd probably do the same thing...

However a man can't wait forever... what? a man can't wait forever, a REAL man will wait however long it takes, if he loves you......... >>>>>Normally if you guys are really in love...he would most likely stay with you even after sex cause its not all about the sex. if hes really in love, he would most LIKELY stay? If he really loves you, sex or staying are not an issues.

well then I guess there are no real men...why would you make a guy wait forever!?

I didn't mean that i would make a guy wait forever............however there may be situations and circumstances that mean sex is not an option, or that it has to be put on hold.......after childbirth is an example, bleeding can last for weeks, so are you saying that if a guy has to wait a few weeks, well then he has every reason to get it from someone else?As for real men, they are around, you obviously don't attract that kinda of guy.

what? whoa...wait...I was thinking of it like a one on one teenage relationship. Whoooaaaaaa....uhm I guess not...its kind of wrong to cheat...well we have hands for a reason

ok, teenage relationship, why would you make a guy wait? because your not ready? You sound like you think that a girl should have sex with a guy because he can't wait, its the thing to do, etc etc..........is that true?

dude...no...! I mean like. If a guy loves you he'd wait, but then I started thnking about 40-year old virgin..so I typed down well he can't wait forever.....I don't mean like...give it to everyone who wants it....

thats good to hear and as for the 40 year old virgin, i LOVED that film LOL

**thats good to hear :smile:

and as for the 40 year old virgin, i LOVED that film LOL **

sorry guys NO idea why it seems i posted twice, i mean come on its barely worth reading the once LOL

As for real men, they are around, you obviously don't attract that kinda of guy.That was pretty mean.

Id expect a guy to wait as long as it takes me to feel comfortable.

No one should expect anything. Just like women shouldnt expect men to open doors for them.. Even though guys should open doors for them, dont sit there and say. UGH ur supposed to!!! thats annoying and it makes the guy nto want to do that out of spite. If i am with a woman i love and she didnt want to have sex. It may be hard ( no pun intended) but since i truley love her and it is mutual then i will wait til shes ready

>>>>>That was pretty mean.

**You think Im arrogant, full of myself and whatever else it was you said steve, so of course you thought i was being mean.*shrugs*

and it wasn't meant to sound mean..........and i don't think the OP thought i was being. **

I'm not sure why you think you know my mind. I didn't say or think any of that. It was just a mean remark.

if a guy tried to force me to have sex, he would have another thing comming. im not saying they shouldnt havea sex drive, hint nudge and ask but actually attempting and making me feel uncomfortable wont happen.

weeelllll you have said all those things to me, or about me before.........so that why i think thats what you think, or are you the kind of person who doesn't actually mean what they say/type........as for the comment, what i said wasn't half as mean as for example when unforgetto called me a C*** which, if i remember you didn't think was bad at all...........would your comment be soley based on the fact that I said it rather than anyone else shrugs BTW im bored arguing with you now...............i was mean, i wasn't mean, WHATEVER!