I don't get why you'd have to mention that you're straigt. Is that necessary. But anyway you shouldn't be doing what you're doing. Too young. People... kids like you make me feel so outdated. Having sex before you hit puberty must be the new in. Forgetting about your gf's past will be kind of hard. Especially at such a young age because you'll have the rest of your life to worry about it. Is she going to be the one you stay with for so long? Do you guys plan on marrying? If not then why should you worry about her past? Don't worry about it. If you do then it's something you'll have to deal with it because it was your choice. No biggie. You weren't really looking for someone with a clean past because you did it anyway. Just relax and try to ignore it. It shouldn't be that bad.
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Accepting sexual past
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I am going to take a very different line to the one expressed by most posters in this thread.What help are we to any poster if we call his girlfriend a slut? It's a grossly offensive thing to say, and no decent guy would accept it. We know nothing about the circumstances of the earlier sexual encounters, which may have been forced for all we know. Even if they weren't, what do you expect to happen to the girl? Is any girl who has a couple of sexual experiences at 13 to be considered as ruined for life, no longer suitable for any high-minded guy except, perhaps, in a brothel? I'd have hoped such attitudes would have been thrown out 100 years ago.It is reasonable to give an opinion that sex in this case is too soon; though it seems in this situation rather too late to be useful. No-one should feel obliged to encourage what they feel should not be encouraged. But to throw out abuse for the sake of feeling morally smug for having done so is something that sickens me.
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Damien, I was trying to say what Ineligible said, except in a less articulate way.
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What? Where? This is the first time you've posted on this thread.
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Same subject (tolerance of seemingly disagreeable first posts, and making judgements about them), different thread.
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Sorry dude, I couldn't let a crap post like that sit. If you wish to pick fights and flame people, do it privately through PM.
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Rolling eyes!Okay!
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rolls eyes back to Roc you might need these hon
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Hey baby....Please... You keep one.. That way I will have an eye on you
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Now really...despite inadvised poking, you two are a bit young to be carrying guilt. A lifetime full of frustrating monogomous relationships will come on its own, Don't rush it.
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the only way to keep it from speaking, is... well to staple your tounge to your chin. there done! poofto the original poster, at 13 , 3 sexual partners you should get away from her, no telling what can happen if by 13 she's had a "fling/one night stand"lastly, at 13 there's still a chance that she hasnt had a freaking period yet!!! dude that's like molestation! (sp?) get outta her life, rather get her outta yours, do yourself a favour
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He's obviously not gonna take the advice to not have sex with this girl just because we say so... especially since he has already done it. But having sex with a 13 year old? Its illegal.. and it's kinda morally wrong. Think of the girl in this situation.. What if you got her pregnant? She's 13! Is that even highschool? think of how she will see herself in her future..
