Help me please

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i'm not sure if this is the right section but i need your help, this is probally on here lots of times but i've had a look around and can't find it anywhere. i've been with my boyfriend for about a month and a half and he has licked me out but no offence to him he wasn't very good beacuase it was his first time but i don't know how to explain to him how to do it better!! if anybody understands my problem and can help it would be much appreciated thanks xx

only you can explain to him how to do it...I cannot tell you how to say it...

Just tell him what feels good to you, and then have him do that.

i don't understand how to explain what feels good because i'm not sure what hes actually ment to do

well what do you do to get off??Tell him exactly what you do...and let him experiment with it...he has to learn "you" and what makes you click....It is what will bring you two closer as he begins to understand you and you begin to respect him for that.

i suppose your right there but how would i get him to do things without being bossy or sounding bad ? if you understand that

trust me you would not sound bossy...just say hey babe do this...or seomthing like that and he will.

thanks your a fella aren't you? how would you lick someone out ? and if your not a guy i'm sorry if i'v offended you

Walken is the manliest man you will ever have the pleasure to talk to.

hahaha this is trueWalken is also a virgin...so I really do not know, I would ask and I am more of a focus on overall body loving...I would kiss a girl all over to make her feel real good.

If you're not too big on directions get him to experiment and when he's doing something right just let him know.

lol I love how I end up giving out lots of sex advice and I have never done it...ROFL

What's that saying??? "Those who can't..Teach"

I guess that is correct. I know so much...damnit stop being right, but it is still funny....I mean typically that is not something you think...most people ass......oh there ya go...assumptions will kill ya.

"..and those who can't teach, teach gym."

School of Rock!!

well if you dont know what gets you off then,hand him a compass, one of those bowling hats, and a whip and tell him to go exploring...or would that be spelonking? and if the exploration doesnt dig up anything interesting try for yourself and make sure to be as vocal as you can so he understands if hes doing something right

In reply to:well if you dont know what gets you off then,hand him a compass, one of those bowling hats, and a whip and tell him to go exploring...or would that be spelonking? lol that is a good one. I would say use a miners hat with the light..lolThe answer is be vocal that is the only way...ladies be vocal..lol

lol yeah or maybe the indiana jones hat,and for the vocalness scream it if you have to just tell him to make sure he bookmarks the spot so to speak....hmmm thatd make an interesting tattoo though im sure its been done before

LOL Indiana Jones hat...ROFL

lol or one of those clappers that way you can just pull the string when he does something right :smile: