Mutual masturbation

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hi all im very happy to be in this community..me and my best friend we masturbate a lot 2gether..a month ago he didnt want to me to jack off his dick but i convinced him..3 weeks ago he asked to make him a blowjob..i did and i do much times..and i like it a lot..im gonna eat his cum if he lets me..im straight but i think im bi-curious..but i asked him and he dont want to even jack off me..his problem is that he think its gay ..anyone got an idea to make him jack off me??anyway im very happy for he letting me suck his dick..sorry for my english..im 15 and im from portugal lol..please someone help me..lol..not that urgent..joao

Welcome to AfraidToAsk, jt2p! Your English is fine.

It's not morally possible to force someone to do something he doesn't want to do, I'm afraid. Perhaps with time he'll become more adventurous.

Next time you are "doing" it to him, try to get him to do it. When i do things that people like but they wont do it back to me, i just say i wont do it to them agian... Then they do it to me. Though, the things arnt sexual.

lol i will try dat

"im gonna eat his cum if he lets me..im straight" - I'm sorry but that dosent sound very 'straight' to me! Are you sure you're being honest with yourself here?! Wouldnt it be better to come out of the closet asap and admit to yourself that you're homosexual? There's nothing wrong with it you know!

I know way too many people like you. You're in such a hurry to put labels on people that you will say anything to make them admit something and you claim that it's okay and that everyone will be okay with it and then once they've said it, you harass them for the rest of their lives. Wouldn't it be better to just admit that you have a problem asap and admit that you need to correct it?

Actually, the guy initiallly said he was "bi-curious," if that makes you feel better. And at 15, it's a big deal to say that. If he's actually gay, it may take him some time to figure his stuff out. Let's leave him alone about his sexual orientation

im not homo im bi-curious lol

im bi-curious plus mutual masturbation is straight

What I'm saying is this jt; When I was sixteen I had an 18 month relationship with a girl and I was very clear in my mind that I was having a homosexual relationship. That is the nature of any sort of sexual relationship between two people of the same gender!

There's nothing wrong with having a homosexual relationship, I just think it's a bit of a stretch to say you're sucking your friends cock and still describe yourself as straight! I didnt think to myself, 'this is my friend whose vagina I just happen to lick'! That attitude smacks of denial in my opinion, which will just be confusing for you in the long run.

im definitely bi-curious

Perhaps the problem is that we use a few terms, some of which may pick up negative baggage, to describe a complex continuum.

im honest with myself im only atracted sexually to a guy and its by best friend..i love the girl body

It can be mutual between your hand and your dick

Yes, I can see the sense in that, and unfortuntely it dosent stop at sexuality.

In reply to:What I'm saying is this jt; When I was sixteen I had an 18 month relationship with a girl and I was very clear in my mind that I was having a homosexual relationship. That is the nature of any sort of sexual relationship between two people of the same gender!There's nothing wrong with having a homosexual relationship, I just think it's a bit of a stretch to say you're sucking your friends cock and still describe yourself as straight! I didnt think to myself, 'this is my friend whose vagina I just happen to lick'! That attitude smacks of denial in my opinion, which will just be confusing for you in the long run.You had a homosexual relationship. You're not a homosexual. You're not in denial.He had a homosexual relationship. He's a homosexual in denial.Right?Sexual orientation is not that cut-and-dried, and I don't see what the gain is in putting a label on such things. What does having a word that describes a person's precise orientation, an orientation that apparently can change over time, add? What is the value? What is the point?

whats bi-corious anyway? (why is it different from bisexual)

Just tell him "If you think its gay, than why do you let me do ? It's not gay if im doing it, but it is of you?! "Its defiantely an assholeness of him to not return the favor.

Bi-curious means you are curious about a homosexual experience. You think about trying it just to see what it's like. Bi-sexual means you like both. jt2p likes giving blow jobs "alot"... straight but bi-curious???... I'd say more like bi-sexual.

Well that was my point too sdp, but I accept I didn’t make it clearly enough in the first instance. My past sexual experiences with women would preclude me from identifying myself as totally 'straight', even though they occurred almost half a lifetime ago, I am fine with that and have never denied it; and I really couldn’t imagine being regularly sexually active with a woman at this point while describing myself as heterosexual. As I said, that smacks of denial, which is pointless and just invites confusion.