Fuck Retard

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Best of luck to you! Don't ruin life over a girl though...she won't respect that. But give it a shot, if it is meant to be. It will be.

thats something my mother would say

Well it's true, one girl isn't worth rearranging your ilfe for

i'm not rearranging my life it's just that i will be gone for 3 yrs in a new city and stuff but i don't want to leave her without telling her how i feel

That is fair. And if your not too far away, you could still see her, and maybe the relationship will grow

For the first year that I dated my fiance she lived about 45 minutes from me, thenmoved toa new apartment that was just over an hour away.I still saw her weekends, and atleast 2 or 3 times a week.All while working atleast 4 ten hour days, and regularly working 5 or 6 ten hour days with a few 7 ten hour days thrown in here and there.a half hour drive or even an hour is nto really all that big a deal in a relationship.Of course I much prefer the last few years where she has lived with me and I get to see her all the time.Not that Im disgreeing with ya pepesi, it just seemed a good place to inject my opinion and demostrate that a bit of distance, even while working full time and overtime, doesnt make it impossible to be in a relationship.

lol, maybe I missed something...but I didn't see disagreement...your story validated my oppinion!!!

Ehhhhhh...
mayhaps Im too intoxicated ?
I felt that since I replied to you, it would look like I was disagreeing ?
Or as stated maybe Im too far from 100% sober to be typing shit that anyone will read and I should shut up now and climb into my bed for a nap since I have to drive a truck inteh am to move my niece.
Its sorta a pain inthe ass to be the only one thats ever driven big trucks and buses, every one calls me to drive when they have something they are scared of driving a few hours in traffic.

LMAO! Keep the intoxicated poetry commin'!

Fuck it i going out with her on friday with some friends and i will just tell her how i feel and see what she says

with some friendsBad idea.

y bad idea

Well, I don't know who's friends you're tlaking about:1) If it's her friends you're going with: She'll probably be talking to her friends the whole time, and you'll have a harder time to do anything with ehr2) If they're your friends: You'll most likely won't be yourself, since you'll be trying to macho and cool w/ your friends and won't be all romantic like you should bePlus you want to spend time with her yourself right? You wouldn't want a bunch of people around when you're trying to cop a feel, would you?

no no it my friend and hers but our friends bf is coming with us

Ok, so it's you + her + some girl and her bf?Now that I must say is a much better idea. I think we all know why.

the only thing i still need to figure out is what i'm going to say to her

One advice thoguh:Try to think about what you're going to say, but don't make an exact script. You'll just sonud like a robot. Just try to think about topics in general you'll talk about, and just let it flow when the date happens

it's not a date it's just a few people going out for dinner and then back to her house to drink and watch movies

That actually sounds like a double date. There is nothing wrong with admitting that it's a date.

Yeah, dude, it's a date. Anyone could see that (even her!).A couple is going out to dinner with two friends who happen to be boy and girl? I think she already knows how you feel, and yuo know how she feels. Going on the date with her is the first step to knowing you like each other