How to ask a friend out (without getting tortured)

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Well, if you don't want to risk the friendship, then don't do it. Do you think it's worth risking?

Well there's no way to do it without risking the friendship ... no matter what, it's going to be different (probably awkward if she says no) after you ask her

I Don't know if it is worth risking we are best friends and if i ask her i run the risk of 2 years of torture and sorrow from school mates and losing a huge friendship with this girl on the other hand i run the benefit of having a gorgeous girl that i have fancied for the last 2 yearsits a confusing choice

If it's confusing you this bad, then don't do it. If you aren't willing to risk the friendship you have with this girl, then back off. There are plenty of girls out there.

Yes, asking her would be risking friendship... no matter what words were exchanged.There was one time that I brought up a possible relationship between friends and it went smoothly. I said something like, "have you ever thought about what it would be like for us to be together?"This girl and I were friends for years. Since elementary school even. And we would get together every so often and just talk for hours on end. So, for me to bring up anything we were comfortable talking about it.

"have you ever thought about what it would be like for us to be together?"

that would be a nice catchy phrase to say at the back of a cinema or something

but again friendship

i feel so sick whether or not to ask her
i have never felt so in love than i have ever before

i don't know if its the past girlfriends that i have no confidence in my self as the last 2 ended in tragedy

Am i a wimp as i would do anything to get her but i dont want to risk friendshipi keep geting so close to asking her but i chicken out

Before you get too love sick, I would find out where you stand. Friend ladder or Dating ladder. If you let it be, then you may just be setting yourself for an even further fall in the future.Don't be afraid of change. Change is the only thing we can count on in life.

There are plenty of girls out there. not plenty of girls that like me

to much information

to much information what???

Look at it this way. Plenty of girls like you, but they and you just don't know it yet.

im not going to argue but im GINGER and UGLY

Have you seen the South Park abuot ginger kids?Sry if it's random .. fnuny episode

It's that state of mind that restricts you. You've created a barrier for yourself. Inner self image is more important than external. If you believe your ugly, then you subconciously give off that opinion of yourself through your movements, words, and actions in general.

ok im emailing her now what do i say

what would really flatter her

Veteran Have you seen the South Park abuot ginger kids?Sry if it's random .. funny episode yes i saw that ginger kids episode it was funny about calling them daywalkers anyway back to subject

Flatter? Well, first of all if that's your aim then do it in person. Be natural, don't fear change, and let your honesty flow. Don't try too hard. Listen to what she has to say. And respond honestly while maintaining a calm and center.

Don't email her! Do it in person.