Standing out

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CR125 has asked me to post this question of his (I've adjusted the spelling and punctuation a bit):What is it about a person that stands out? Like say...like in a place people know of (like a mall) what makes a person check out one person over another, when they are all similar in look...ok like here is the example... blonde long hair hot bodied girl and her two hot bodied blonde friends: they're all equally hot with the same body types and have the same hair - what makes one stand out over the others?

wearing nice clean jeans and a nice shirt

I honestly thing that all physical attributes being equal its about attitude and how she carries herself.
I dont like blondes myself, I prefer brunettes. aside from that its all about attitude and confidence and the fact she is smarter than a potato.
I almost added an e to potato, but I didnt want anyone jumping my ass when noone got the joke between stupid, and a potato. For the youngsters that maybe crious, look into past vice presidents of the US. :laughing:

I was going to say the same thing....it's the way that person carries him/herself.

What makes a person stand out in any setting or situation is always the same, that's their individuality. While all three girls, in your scenario, may be of the same clique, may talk the same or dress the same. The one that will get noticed is the one that does things a little different than the rest of the herd.For instance, in a group of emo, goth, whatever, girls that put on a front of dolorous, morose faces, the girl with the slightest enthusiasm for life, more than likely, will be the one noticed and remembered. That doesn't mean that she doesn't act like or fit into the clique she runs with, that just means that she has enough individuality about her to be noticed.The converse of my example is also true. In a group of loud, brash "everybody look at me" girls, such as is typically encountered in any mall, the quiet girl is more likely the one to be remembered.I remember an example of this from a course I took in criminal psych. a long time ago. Four or so robbers went in brandishing guns at a bank (I think it was). Three of the robbers were getting in people faces threatening them and what have you. The fourth robber stayed back watching the door (I guess) and didn't interact with any of the many people in the bank. When the police interviewed the witnesses most had a hard time describing the three loud and violent perpetrators but most could easily describe the quiet one standing at the front door. It was by the accurate description of the fourth man that they were able to apprehend the lot.The long and short of it is individuality, even in the smallest most innocuous doses, is what makes one get noticed or not.

Quote:I honestly thing that all physical attributes being equal its about attitude and how she carries herself. Took the words from my mouth

I need to talk to ya so bad!

I would also say how they carry themselves... This indicates a lot to me.How is her posture? Does she have any peircings? Are any of them showing? Are any tattoos showing? Is she wearing makeup? How much makeup is she wearing? What is she doing? Is she talking loud or keeping her voice less audible? What kind of shoes is she wearing? Is she wearing clothes that are in the current fashion trend?All these things can say a lot about a girls personality.In high school, I lumped people into two groups. The sheep and the individuals. The sheep were the people that basically followed and often were too afraid to do the thinking on their own. The individuals were the people that thought for themselves and didn't let too many external forces influence them. Individuality attracts me.

If a girl has really pretty eyes, they really stand out, or full lips.

eyes. you can see what someone's all about if you look in them long enough.

I like this question but i just dont know how to answer it!I think it is the eyes, a women who can look you dead in the eyes without turning away. Have you ever noticed that its always the people looking you in the eyes that stand out in the crowd. Its almost like they are saying, "Look at me!" from accross the room. I also think you can tell a lot about a person from their eyes, it really is the gateway to a persons soul. Cheesy as it may sound If they arent looking me in the eye it has got to be as previously said how they carry themselves, the way they move. Someone who is confident in themselves can be seen from miles away, it is usually backed up by beauty (confident people tend to be attractive).My take