You're Joking right?I'm the most confrontational pain in the ass, and if my fella is doing something like running around saying this girl is his fuck buddy, I'm going to try to deal with it, and understand, but in no way is that me not trying to disturb "The Man." Fuck That.
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FB and GF. I might be in trouble...
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You just admitted you are the exception to the rule. As crappy as it sounds; that is STILL a rather true sociocultural norm. Girls still are raised to be less confrontational.
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Maybe we are raised to be less confrontational. I say "it's fine" simply because I want my man to make his own choices. And I want him to make the right one without me having to tell him what to do.
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Well, you (and me) are the exception to the rule. For the most part, women are taught to be less confrontational and to just go with the flow.
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Quote:I say "it's fine" simply because I want my man to make his own choices. And I want him to make the right one without me having to tell him what to do. I feel the same way. And I often say 'it's fine' when it's really not.I think being confrontational with your lover is different than being confrontational with some random man. I have no problem telling someone else to 'F off'. lol
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Quote:And I often say 'it's fine' when it's really not.I think being confrontational with your lover is different than being confrontational with some random man. I have no problem telling someone else to 'F off'. lol I completely agree with you on both of those points! If any other guy were to do something, I would definately say directly what is on my mind. I can't quite figure out why though...!?
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Quote:If any other guy were to do something, I would definately say directly what is on my mind. I can't quite figure out why though...!? You care a lot about what your man thinks about you. You care less about what a stranger thinks about you. There are a lot of feelings mixed into the judgement.Girls feel like their man should know what they like and don't like. At the same time, boundaries are different from girl to girl. This is where men often get themselves in trouble. I like to call them out on it by saying something like, "Are you doing that pouty girl thing again? You know, that 'when you say no it really means yes' thing?" lol.
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I was just about to run off to bed when I noticed that you'd replied here...
I couldn't put my finger on exactly why I did that... but..you are completely right!!
My man calls me out on "that pouty girl thing" in the same way that you do. It makes me laugh, and he always does the right thing when he realises :grin: it obviously works! hehe. -
He's a smart guy for calling you out on it. Otherwise he'd be in some deep (insert nasty excrement of your choice here). :grin:
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yeah dude just to underline what has been said, imagine if she had a really close guy friend who she hung around with alot and they called each other fuck buddys. maybe youd be ok with that but i bet youd rather she didnt, it doesnt matter tho. bottom line is that it does bother your girlfriend, so if her feelings mean anything to you i would highly reccommend paying more attention to the one you are with. after all, if she loves you like you say she does, what else do you need?
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Well, to put it in TRUE Steph language..If i caught my man talking like that to some bitch! Id bitch slap her skank ass! And then I'd dump his ass so fast he wouldnt know what hit him! This is a HUGE mistake and you need to stop NOW!
