Serious question about Masterbation...

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This is a serious question and I hope I don't get flamed for this...Well anyways, there are many ways to masterbate, and I tend to use the rub my dick against a surface kind of way. But when I rub it, my penis CANT be erected.Ive tried using my jack and go up and down the shaft but i dont really get going you know... unless im doing it wrong. Id like to masterbate with a hard dick so I can actually shoot.About how many minutes do I have to do the up and down motion on my penis to start getting that good feeling? Is it possible to switch my masterbation method from the rubbing the soft penis to rubbing the shaft when its hard?How can I get out more cum when I masterbate? Like is it possible to get like a mouthful or spoon ful?I masterbate rubbing my dick when its soft, but i tend to finish in 1-3 minutes, am i doing it wrong or something? cause i think it should laster longer.Also what is the average length of a penis for a 15 year old when its flacid and ercted? Thx for the help I hope i dont get flamed... im 15 if that info is needed

I'm confused. - Are you saying that when you rub your dick you don't get hard?- Do your reach an orgasm, wet or dry?- Can you get an erection?__________________________________________________________________>>>"About how many minutes do I have to do the up and down motion on my penis to start getting that good feeling?" At your age not very long probably around or less than 5 minutes.>>>"Is it possible to switch my masterbation method from the rubbing the soft penis to rubbing the shaft when its hard?"Yes, as matter of fact, that's generally the way it's done.>>>"How can I get out more cum when I masterbate? Like is it possible to get like a mouthful or spoon ful?"Nobody's dishin' out mouthfuls. About half a teaspoon is typical.>>>"I masterbate rubbing my dick when its soft, but i tend to finish in 1-3 minutes, am i doing it wrong or something? cause i think it should laster longer."You rub your soft dick that remains soft to orgasm???? ...in 1 to 3 minutes. As far as the amount of time is concerned, yeah, that's probably about right for your age. As your get older it will take longer.>>>"Also what is the average length of a penis for a 15 year old when its flacid and ercted?"It depends on the individual and what stage of puberty their at, so I doubt there really is any meaningful average.You can go look in the "How Big is Your Dick" thread in male genitalia but be forewarned a lot of the responses are lies.

No I mean when I masterbate I have to have my penis flacid and and i put my hands around my flacid penis and i laydown and i like rub and stuff its wierd i know lolthats why i wanna switch to masterbating normaling like jacking it u know. Is that possible?this is a sick forum btw i just joined and i acutally get answers fast unlike other forums.

• Do you get erect at all when you masturbate?- Do you ejaculate?- Can you get an erection?>>>"...masterbating normaling like jacking it u know. Is that possible?"Sure it's possible sit back relax and wank away. It might be a little different at first but you'll get used to it and enjoy it I'm sure.>>>"...i just joined and i acutally get answers fast unlike other forums."That's just cause I'm here and fuckin' board as hell at work. Give it time more and more people will chime in, many with better advice than I can give.By the way, welcome to the boards.

thx lol...is it possible to masterbate without lube? i cant find any lube >.<

i can get an erection, i dont ejaculate... it sucks. i masterbate with laying on my stomach and i have my hands around my penis which is flacid and i move my humps and i rub my dick...and when im done i dont ejaculate it usually just dribbles out...how can i ejaculate?

i'm tryin to grasp the concept of what you're actually sayin? i didn't know it was possible to cum without being hard. for me, that'd be a challenge. generally, when i'm hard, i place my hand around the glans of my penis and move the foreskin up and down. i used to fall victim to tight foreskin, but the ppl on here were v helpful. i duno if thats why u don't, can't or won't try it when you're erect, but my advice, is get yourself erect, wank by whatever method feels comfortable and keep going and let nature take its course, causing you to ejaculate. personally, the amount of sperm that comes from myself would be just over a mouthful, as my girlfriend would agree

Not every guy is a shooter, spurting cum out. Some of us are dribblers, but it's still accompanied by feelings of orgasm. Do you feel any orgasm? If you don't, you may just be seeing pre-cum.

my bf is a shooter. i loves it too to the o.p just relax and have fun. not every guy needs lube to wank. my bf doesnt, but hes uncut. so its totally up to you. about not getting hard, just try and think "dirty thoughts" lol or try masterbating in someplace different, like the shower, the water may be a good lube :p

I just tried the wanking method...after bout 4 mins still no luck and very little precum if any..am i doing it wrong? or can i not switch>

Did you get erect this time, or where you playing with a limp noddle again?

Yes. Fully erect.Maybe im not explaining myself right... The way I normally masturbate is I lay down on my stomach, put my hands around my flacid penis, and rub it and thrust my hips slightly until i cum or reach a small orgasm.Im trying to change my normal masturbation to the normal wanking way. I tried the wanking way today but nothing happened... am I doing it wrong or something?

Quote:Yes. Fully erect. Quote:The way I normally masturbate is I lay down on my stomach, put my hands around my flacid penis,When you masturbated, was it flaccid and then it became hard?

Its always flacid.

Here i find a discription:

I lie down on my stomach and cup my hands to the left of my penis, and I just rub the pelvic area next to it. I achieve orgasm and ejaculation without ever getting an erection.

Pretty accurate.

I don't think you are having the phrase of ejaculation. Most likely it's the precum that is coming out.

That makes much more sense. It was confusing because you said Yes. Fully erect."

IS ther a way I can change from my current way of masturbation to the wanking way?

so are you saying that you cant get hard? because a few posts ago you said you were fully erect, but just then you said its flacid? it may take a while to get used to, but its worth the wait

Originally Posted By: EtherIS ther a way I can change from my current way of masturbation to the wanking way? Er, start wanking away?When you masturbate, what do you think about? And how is the level of your horniness?

I just tried the wanking method...after bout 4 mins still no luck and very little precum if any...4 minutes? Perhaps you are much too impatient. Are you intact or circumcised?