Well, my girl and I have had sex 3 times now, and each time I seem to last really long, but it makes NO sense.the first time, I used a normal trojan, we did it for 30 minutes and I didn't ejaculate, we had to stop because someone came home.The second time I used an ultra thin trojan, and I lasted about 50 minutes, and that was with an ultra thin condom...The third time I wore a for her pleasure trojan (the purple one.) and we did it for a really really long time, I don't remember how long but she had 2 orgasms during the whole time. We had to stop after a while because the girl Diana that was at my house had to find her cell, so she killed the moment, so I went in the other room and finished myself.well, here's what i'm getting at...With an ultra thin i last about 50 minutes-1hr With a for her pleasure, which is supposedly a bit less thick then a regular trojan I last a really long time, it'd take me about 1 1/2 hours to finish with one.Well, this makes no sense at all. When I jack off, I finish in about 10 minutes, but when I have sex I last 50 minutes - 1 1/2 hours, any idea? maybe it's because of fear or nervousness during sex, I usually don't get nervous or anything, but maybe it's a mental thing?and this is my other theory, when I masturbate, I don't move, in like humping motions, so maybe that's why because it's "uncomfortable" somewhere in my mind to me?Idk, I'm not complaining, but my girl feels like shes not doing her job by gettin me off. And at one point I feel like she wants me to finish already, but I cant. =/
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Cumming
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The feeling of vaginal sex can be rather different from masturbation, especially if you are used to a firm grip. It's quite common to take much longer in vaginal sex at first, just because you're not used to the feeling. Nervousness could also be a factor. I suspect that with more practice it will become faster, especially if you hold off from masturbating for some time beforehand.
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Wow, wanna trade? It takes me a few minutes mastubating, and sometimes it feels like less than a minute with sex. How do you even keep your body moving in the sexual motions for an hour? My god if I were you I would just snicker under my breath at every guy I saw and thank God I was granted such a marvelous blessing.Now, on the advise side, maybe you should have sex somewhere more private, or ask your girlfriend for a little more forplay, sucking, etc. Or you could ask her to play with her self in front of you and masturbate until you get closer to orgasm. Also, make sure you assure your girlfriend that it's not her fault, and if she "wants me to finish already" you could pull out and ask her to finish you off in some other way than intercourse. Last of all, and I know its an evil business, but maybe you should consider a career as a porn star. A really, really, really famous porn star.
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Damn dude, you're lucky as hell. A lot of guys would love to 1.5 hour rounds with the vagina, but get knocked out in the first 20 minutes. With thinner gloves they finish even faster. That's a rare gift you have haha. On a less serious note and down a more jokingly venue, there's always riding bareback
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I've only slept with one girl, and I've had this problem. We did do it five times though. The first time, when I lost my virginity, I ejaculated in just a few minutes. Then the second time, I could never ejaculate. Neither of us had any orgasms that time. The third time, we decided to try it without a condom, and just pull out. Risky and I wouldn't recommend it, but it worked. I ejaculated after maybe half an hour of sex. Fourth time was again uneventful, and the fifth time she had an orgasm but I didn't. In hindsight, I think this was because I was so nervous that I wasn't very turned on. I feel like if I got hold of her when I was really horny, I would blow before I even finished entering her. Point is, you are probably just not turned on good. I could be wrong though. That's just my take on the matter.
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Sir. I congradulate you. I laughed out loud at the bareback comment.Anyway OP. I am thinkin its nervousness. I hope I can go for a decent amount of time when it comes down to it.
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i never have gone off during sex so far... no girl dared going over 45 mins
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I'm in a similar situation. The first time with my latest girlfriend, I went for 2hrs, maybe close to 2 and a half (not exaggerating). It's a good thing, and you're woman will want you more because of it. If you think of it as a problem, your mind may be somewhere else while you're in the act. Focus on the fact that you have someone you like below you, and, well, she's nude. Think of the moment, not on whatever else is on your mind. Worst case, think of something that really turns you on, and ask her to do it. (careful, some girls may get offended dependent on the situation).Try new positions, don't be afraid to go a little harder or faster. It's my experience, that women, (though they may not admit it), like it in that way. I'm no porn star, but with the 6-7 girls I've been with, have always enjoyed it more when I did it harder. You gotta realize it's still your body, learn to control it. I personally try and go for as long as possible so I can please the girl. If she feels like it's unpleasing to you, tell her you're holding off for her.