For the boys, about boobs.

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I wouldn't know, i'm an ass man.

I think nowadays women wear those kind of things to get more attention. It would be a great help if women used more discretion with respect to what they wear and walk around. I think alot of the female mindset with respect to bodyimage and other issues is hugely dictated by the media which results in this kind of behavior. Women need to alter their way of thinking if they have to make a change in the way they are viewd by their male colleagues.James.

I don't wear low-cut shirts or tube tops or anything like that for that matter. I get "the look" no matter what I have on and it's quite annoying. Maybe it's just me, but sometimes guys don't understand that it makes the girls very VERY VERY uncomfortable when you're just staring at her chest. Common decency is all I ask.

I don't know how some guys can just stare shamelessly. I can't help but look but I definitely don't want to be caught doing it. As a matter of fact, I sometimes miss it altogether because I purposely don't look if someone with a low-cut top is walking towards me for fear of being caught. Then I have remorse afterward. In those situations, I'm upset that they teased and I got no reward.

I hate not having my sunglasses on in public for that same reason.

that IS SO disturbing...

What? My Pic? It's meant to be. The sunglass thing?.. well, I'm a guy. Nuff said?

ok... that wasn't meant to be taken seriously........ sarcasm maybe?

Maybe. JUST maybe.

I think that most girls who wear low cut tops and show cleavage are looking for attention, to a certain extent. They/we are proud of their chests and want to show them off. Now, that doesn't mean stare at them profusely with your tongue hanging out and drooling everywhere.

How come girls are on us (guys) for looking / staring and acting all innocent like they don’t do the same thing. Girls know they check out guys (look & Stare) just like we do to them. When we girls wear low cut shirts or tubetops/tanktops...etc, are you boys forcing yourself not to stare and look? No (at least I’m not) Are you intimated or even annoyed that we wear such things? No (wear wut u want)wut annoys me is when a chunky or heavy girls tries to stuff herself in cloths. I really don’t want to see your belly hanging over your pants or seeing your pants cutting off your circulation. If u see me staring at u it’s not cuz u look good…….. it’s cuz I’m thinking wtf were you thinking. I’ve seen several chunky or heavy girls that wore cloths that fitr and look very nice. Would you guys rather us wear those clothing less often to lessen the temptation of staring? If ur hot I’m going to check u out. No matter what your wearing. If your ugly It Don’t matter…… Or are you boys just the sneaky type, only feasting your eyes when no one, particularly us, is looking? I try not to get busted…but I have several times. There are some girls that I look at and thing dang she’s hot and go on about wutever, but then there are girls that are hot that I can’t stop looking at. lol ..yea those I get busted on all the time checking out.

I hope not all boys think like that... I wear loose fitting, if you want to call it decent, and non-tight clothing because I see how it effects the boys I hang with who are like my brothers. I don't want to see them look at me like that. it's so uncomfortable. and to be honest, in my opinion, it's very uncomfortable when a guy looks like that. if it was the face I'd be like oh ok but if it's certain body parts then... ew. just awkward, especially when you look back at them and they still stare you down. the loose fitting clothes doesn't seem to work unfortunately.

Quote:I hope not all boys think like that... yea.. your right not all guys think like that. lol some think worse.

>>>"some think worse."

Yeah, like me.... I think, "I wonder what kind of bush she's got? O-natural, trimmed, shaved or landing strip." :grin:

I'm a chick and I wonder the same thing. :eyes:

But your special Lish... in kinky kinda way. I also think some perverted things to, when I see a hot women, but we won't discuss those here. LoL

no, I didn't mean it like that, I'm sorry.I was just hoping that, you know, not all boys thought that way. Maybe there are some who aren't all about the physical appearance. It's kind of a scary thought.

Quote: Maybe there are some who aren't all about the physical appearanceYeah, there are guys who are like that with girls. But they are all gay

\>\>\>"Maybe there are some who aren't all about the physical appearance."
It's not **_all_** about the physical appearance. Just because we notice a bodacious set of ta-tas or wonder how she trims her bush or delight in seeing Eddie's package in his tight lace up trunks doesn't mean we don't recognize or admire the rest of the person.

the sungalsses are a bonus for me I HAVE to wear them.fist off I fetish for sunglasses, I own probally 70 pair. from dollar store specials to 600 dollar designers. I keep 3 extra pair in each vehicle to make sure Im never with out and have a whole drawer on my dresser dedicated to them, all placed neatly on teh bottom and never just jammed in to scratch and break and each in its own case. I like sun glasses!many yeas ago I was doing an electrical job, the asshole i just got done explaining to that I shorted the circut for areason and dont turn the power on till I tell you so, walked rihgt in and flipped the fucking breaker and I got hung up, couldnt get off and had a guy working not far away see and knock me off he fucking wires with a board. it arced, fucking brilliantly and I got arc flash, I had had it a couple times before from welding but this one was the worse, several days off with sand paper eyelids scratching the fuck out of my eyes it hurt to open em or close em and light just sucked ass. enough drop snad shit from teh eye doctor to make existance miserable but possible and since then I have not been ablt to fucking stand light. brihgt light indoors or damned near any natural ligth from the sun.its painful, not like an arc flash but my eyes are so sensitive that it gives me headaches and I squint more than fucking clint eastwood. I have the darkest of the dark glasses and leave em on till I have to take em off. thta means after my headlights are on and after the sun is behind the mountains that are everywhere I live, even then I have a lighter pair I switch too so I can see but am nto ready to lose them all together.thers no way anyone can see my eyes behidn them, so while I have a legitimate excuse for wearing them and wear then indeed all the time, I still get the benifits of checking shit out with out MY girl noticing Im looking at some other girls ass.While tits are OK, Im nt a huge fan, I like little boobs, little ass and a small waist. a b cup is good, an a is better. its legs and ass that I love to stare at.Julie has an incredible edible ass, and legs that Id kill someone to have wrapped around my neck or jsut to suck on hre thighs for an hour. There is however no harm in looking, so long as its not a drool inspiring stare. On th total topic, girsl are better people, they can see past ugly and love a man, men are shallow, while we can get over some shit, if we are nto attrated in some wa to begin with to a girl, shes never going to get shit from us. Now Im not talking about 2 am drunk adn looking to score men, and some desperate fucks would fuck a snake if someone was to hold it for them. there is always an exception to the rulke but for the most part a woman has to be physically attractive on some level befor we can get to know her or atleast to have any interest in her outside of a friend, and even then we prefer hot friends to ugly ones.