Realities of One-Night Stands

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As if it actually works.

It does, 99.9% of the time. That's why it's also important to get tested.You make it seem like having sex in general is a bad thing.

I see what you're trying to get at.I understand that a disease is something no ones wants and having sex with multiple partners does increase your chance in getting one. But as long as you play it smart, you should be fine. I know that not ALL people do it, but what can we do?But having sex with people, whether they have a disease or not, and being responsible isn't a bad thing at all.

No offense, but you guys have a tendency to turn things around to make it what it's not. When someone says having sex with more than one person is a "bad thing". They're not saying the person they're saying the action. Otherwise they would have said a PERSON who has sex with more than one person is a "bad person" or "bad." So no, that doesn't eliminate the "majority" of the world. OD with the comparison.I'm confused as to why I'm repeating myself for the umpteenth time that the "throwing around of sex" with multiple people is disgusting to me. When did I say that sex is bad?And um... 99.9% of the time? really? Over 47 million abortions in 33 years proves otherwise.

Yes I can. And I do all the time every time. If a girl has slept with 20 guys I don't think she is a slut nor do I think less of her. And I don't see myself superficial to her. I do however think she needs to value herself more and not give so much of herself to these random guys going in and out her life when she deserves better. I don't know if she's sleeping with random guys because she gets abused at home, or she has insecurities. It could be anything. I tend to sympathize with people who do things like this.

You can't be serious. Is this really the way you think? People actually think this way? Dang abi, I must sound like a weirdo then . It now makes sense though. So then you know what, you're absolutely right. See, I can't understand this from your point of view. And vice versa. You say I'm being condescending as if I think myself to be so high and mighty when I know for a fact I'm of no greater value than the prostitutes and drug dealers on 3rd avenue 5 blocks from my home. You think I'm just blabbing my big "religion type girl" mouth making assumptions and judging people, and I'm just speaking from experience. We are not on the same page. So, it's all good. I can't think like you. And you can't see my way. So there's no point really. And I apologize, because I should have realized that from the start before I just jumped my big behind in the conversation instead of minding my own. In a way, I can't agree with you. But what you say is probably right to most people so... I can't rebuttal against it.

Actually... you really haven't. I was never a "good Christian girl". Don't know what that is. I have never only kissed a boy. People think I'm some good girl. If you only knew. But I'm glad you don't. Cause I've done and been involved in things I wish I hadn't that have affected and are still affecting me to this day.  Quote:I myself have not slept with 20 people. But if I do end up doing that in my life, I will not be a different person than I am now.Even though you not too long ago accused me of thinking lowly and condescending of some girl as a slut who may have done the same thing.Added:I find it funny that people get angry with Christians for being "judgmental" and whatever crap like that when just by the fact that they say they are a Christian you do the EXACT same thing. How ironic.

Boy oh boy you're so right. Keep on soldier girl. Don't let anyone shake your ways.

Originally Posted By: JapanFan14

And um... 99.9% of the time? really? Over 47 million abortions in 33 years proves otherwise.

That just proves how people are idiots. It has no standing in a discussion about how effective condoms are. I highly highly doubt all of those people had protected sex and still got pregnant. To think otherwise, to put it bluntly, is to disregard logic.

Hmmm, well JapanFan, I do respect your position, BUT, this comment..."I'm reading through the thread and I'm sorry I just didn't feel comfortable with what I was reading" reminded me of a story my friend told me just the other day, A girl at a scouts campout decided not to participate in a game of truth or dare some other girls were having, thats all well and fine, but then the next day she ran off to tell the councellors about the game and the other girls all got a talking to. The point is, if you arent comfortable with something, dont do it, if this thread was bothering you, why read furthur? I mean, I'm not trying to attack you or anything, just a curious question, if it was bothering you reading the posts, why did you continue? why not just not read furthur?

um, i was being dead serious. but that's alright cause you don't know me. so you don't know how I am.

I'll try to sound less... me.

You are right. Thank you for your insight so that I won't think in such a biased way.

I don't know how more sincere I can get instead of it sounding like an "ad hominem" attack... :confused:

Quote:They didn't really say why it is women think they have one-night stands. Every single one night stand I had was when I was drunk out of my mind... kinda embaressing

sigh.. you people are so boring.

how insulting. that's like my nickname in the MV. you're not worthy of the name! *I take it back!* And I'm giving it to Ash!

wait what?!?! lol. giving me what now? i think that just flew right over my head. haha thats assuming you were referring to me

awww crap papi's not happy!lol Ash, I'm dedicating the title of "Soldier girl" to you. or as some say "SG" It's my personal nickname that my friends gave me (among others but this one is actually good =P) and it represents my ability to withstand "impossible" situations. Ever since the thing with my father I've earned the nickname SG and I carry it with pride. And now I'm passing it down to my sista from anotha mista. cue Lord of the Rings theme music you love my corniness. admit it!

lol oh that's just the short version of my town Mount Vernon but people socialize it with MurdaVille. Stoopid nonsense like that.

You can if you write a 750-word essay about the tone of this topic.

yayyy throws glitter and dancesi think that should lighten up the tone in this thread

Glitter somehow makes everything better. Although, I don't recommend it for one-night stands. It get's into areas it shouldn't get into.

thats what showers are for :eyes:

lol, im getting just as dirty as the rest of you. you're all rubbing off on me. rawrrrr :wink: