This young lady does NOT need a man in her life right now. She needs to get back to school and focus on her future. When the time is right, when she gets her life back on track, then she can either work it out with her baby's father or find another man.thats clear, and thats what i was saying stupid!and virtual, did you grow up with 2 parental figures?i didnt, so yes i know ROUGHLY what its like, as was said before, it is a case by case type scenario,but there are things in general that single parent children can relate to.as a man, its hard not having a father to play catch with etc. the little things fucked me up the most.as a women, (both of my sisters perspectives) it was hard not having there father to defend them, and give them advice about men. even growing up they wished our dad woulda been there to tell her that she cant date boys, or be out late, or any FRIVOLOUS statements, that most other people disregard.now who the fuck knows whether or not her daughter will grow up straight without a father figure, but then again who knows whether or not she wont without one.those 2 things are both situations that you cant predict nor I, but what im saying NOW, is that, its BEST and easiest to raise a child with at least a father figure, whether it be an uncle, cousin, or moms boyfriend, someone that treats her like a daughter.it eliminates so many ifs for the future.now just leave me alone virtual, whatever, you talk about me clarifying what i say, why dont you clarify what the hell you say.you said and i quote Quote: FORGET ABOUT GUYS next time u give advice. at least so you wont be a hypocrite, say "FOR NOW," or "AS OF NOW"-PEACE