Guys Kissing

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Originally Posted By: DxLISHxISx_43I think guys kissing is HOT! I never get to see it in person though. As a girl, it really sucks to be at a bar or something and have to hide the fact you are there with your girlfriend. I remember my ex girlfrind and I would go out and act like friends because if we would even give each other a peck on the lips, guys would swarm around us and totally ruin the night. Do you know how hard it is to be tipsy and try to keep your hands to yourself with a sexy red head sitting next to you? Yes.

I should say everybody have their own opinions and their way of thinking,why i do not know.I for one is pro-choice what women and men do with their bodies are their business,it don`t bother me,they are living their life.

I'm of the same opinion as lish on this one.. I think it's hot!! I don't get why there is such an issue in society with these things. I don't see the need for people (gay, straight, whatever..) to shove their tongues down eachothers throats in broad daylight in public, but on the night, if you're out or whatever.. why the hell is there such a problem?! It's pretty much expected that couples will do it... bloody double standards.Here's an interesting question... For homosexual people, does it bother you to see straight people kissing???

Originally Posted By: AmzHere's an interesting question... For homosexual people, does it bother you to see straight people kissing??? Doesn't bother me at all. Again my only issue is when people feel they need to have their tongues down each others throats. There a place for that, and it's not in public or in the middle of a restaurant like Rad's experience. But a simply little peck on the lips or cheek I think it very sweet and romantic.

I'm one of those, who thinks nothing of either. Holding hands, a hug, or a peck, no big deal. Making out in public...ewww!

But, really I don't know if it is because I am such a voyeur lol.
If I wanna watch, it's cause I wanna play, and I'll just go get a video...:)

LOl speaking of watching that reminds me of an incident that happened when Adam and I were on Vacation a couple months ago in SoBe, FL. We were out in the ocean swimming when we looked over and this girl had her BF/husband straddled around the waste with her legs. Well at first I didn't think anything of it until we got a little closer and we realized they were having sex! Well being the voyeur I am I had to watch LoL. Adam kept telling me to stop looking but like I told him if they are going to do it right there in the open with people all around them than damn it I am going to watch! LoLBut that raises a question, wouldn’t salt water really irritate the vagina?? They were at it for a LONG time; I would think there would be a point it would burn??

"...like I told him if they are going to do it right there in the open with people all around them than damn it I am going to watch!"My sentiment, exactly. I don't care what people do but if their going to put on show they better not have a problem with me watching it. They just better be prepared to be perved on.As for the vagina question, my wife and I did the exact same thing, in Florida, in the water, hopefully a little more discretely (who the fuck am I kidding I didn't care if people watched, took pictures or joined in) and she didn't have any problems.Like sex in any other kind of water the lube doesn't last to long and there might be some irritation from that.

Oh pepsi and eddie, you both make me laugh. I'd have watched too, being the perv that I am!!!
I can't say I've ever had sex in salt water.. guess it would dry it up and hurt little...?!

Originally Posted By: Amz

I can't say I've ever had sex in salt water.. guess it would dry it up and hurt little...?!

That was kind of my thoughts :smile:

If you guys went to my high school, you'de be used to seeing people stick their tounges all down each others throats...giving handjobs and blow jobs....even fucking just like, right in the open. Lmfao j/k....sorta.

But I think guys kissing is romantic but thats cuz I'm bi. And I don't mind seeing straight people kiss, by two best freinds are together and they do it all the time. I'm not really scared to kiss a guy in public, I held hands with a guy in a church with like tonnnnns of people (it was like this thing at a church where basically everyone at my school shows up, its like this big band/skating event). So im not a wuss. No one said anything. But we also had a lesbo couple walking around to so I doubt it seemed odd.

It sounds like things have actually been going pretty well for you lately, Someone young. It was not long ago you were worried how to let someone know you are bi, and here you are holding hands.

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I don't like couples making out in public, it's rather anoying and innapropriate in my opinion.But, holding hands, a peck on the cheak or lips etc is really cute, weather it's between a man and a woman, two women or two men.It's kinda shitty if gay guys feel that they can't express their love for their partner in such a sweet beautiful way because there are other people around who may give them shit for it. There's nothing wrong with being in love or expressing that love appropriatly in public.

Most of the time we can't! Especially becasue of people who think public displays of affection between two people of the same sex is gross and wrong.. so they shoot 'em.

Ah yes, America, the land of the (not so) free!People should be able to express whatever they wanna!! I hold hands with my girlfriend, why can't a gay guy hold hands with another guy? I mean, c'mon... we're supposed to be in the age of understanding here!!!I know things are more open then they used to be, but I'd like to think that if I were gay, then I would still be able to hold hands with the person I love, because I find it somewhat unthinkable that I wouldn't be able to hold my girlfriends hand in public... I'm quite the romantic really, and holding hands is just one of those little things that I can do that I know is supportive and kind, and I don't see a problem with anyone else doing that, male male, female female, or anyone anywhere in between for that matter!!The only thing i don't really like, is unwanted physical contact... I like my little personal bubble, and what annoys me, is when people get inside that little safety zone if they're not welcome, like there's this guy at work who touches me on the arm when he wants to talk to me... I've told him about it so many times, and it just winds me up chronically!!! But that's nothing to do with men touching, that's just about giving me my space, because, unless it's my gf... I'm not really a touchy kinda person :$Anyway, my little rant over, I suppose I should get ready and go to work!!

Originally Posted By: MDDracoThe only thing i don't really like, is unwanted physical contact... I like my little personal bubble, and what annoys me, is when people get inside that little safety zone if they're not welcome, like there's this guy at work who touches me on the arm when he wants to talk to me... I've told him about it so many times, and it just winds me up chronically!!! But that's nothing to do with men touching, that's just about giving me my space, because, unless it's my gf... I'm not really a touchy kinda person :$I do this kind of thing a lot actually. Not to adults so much, but with kids. Well, not girls. But with the guys I'll often kind of pat their shoulder as they're leaving my office, that kind of thing. But I think I have the ability to be sensitive and discern when it may not be a good idea. I think those of you who don't like that kind of touch have the right to "decline" it.

Some people are touchy-feely. Let them know you don't like it. Most will understand.

I don't see what you're saying, Rad. If you're saying that a person who doesn't like to be touched shouldn't stop other people who don't mind it touching each other, I agree, but I don't think anyone in this thread has suggested this.If, however, you're saying that people who don't like to be touched should accept touching because the majority (in US culture) do, I wonder if you would say the same to someone with bad sunburn; and if not, why there should be a difference made between physical and mental pain.

Are you suggesting that people who don't want to be touched change their personal preference for the convenience and pleasure of those that do?

There are many reasons a person may not want you to touch them, not just sunburn. I know kids who have been horribly abused and as a result don't want to be casually touched. They have done the work needed to process and overcome the abuse, and are really functioning well with bright futures, but they just don't want to be touched. Is that so bad? Isn't it the easiest thing in the world to accommodate them, and shouldn't we do it?

Originally Posted By: albeitmyselfThere are many people out there in the world who would love to be touched but are surrounded by non-touching people. Can they demand that they be touched simply because they need touch if someone doesn't want to touch them? No. And the same should be for people who like to touch others but the others don't want it. It is always the case that the more reserved or slow-paced person gets to dictate the pace of life. If you and your friend are hiking and you are faster, you will slow down for your friend. So if someone doesn't like to be touched or to touch others you shouldn't require them to do so. That's a great analogy!