What Happened When I Legally Exposed My Breasts...

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Would you be with a woman who weighed 400lbs?How about a brunette? A blonde? Redhead?How about a girl that was 6'3"A girl that felt bathing was wrong?A prostitute?How about a hardcore Christian?Did you say no to any of those? Then you're judging their characters and saying they're below par! You horrible human being you!Do you see how silly you're being now??

You can yap away... I still stand by my comments that people can't disassociate the body with sexuality.

Originally Posted By: sdpYou can yap away... I still stand by my comments that people can't disassociate the body with sexuality. Then we agree

I need to make a correction.. Strike the word "can't" and replace with "don't and/or won't"

And I still completely agree

It really doesnt matter, bodies are bodies, i wouldnt care if my girlfriend liked to go topless on a beach or whatever, its her choice but not being able to go out with someone coz of it sounds a bit controlling, like your saying 'its MY girlfriend so MY body'

I get what you're saying.. You want a girlfriend with morals. Someone who respects their body enough that they dont need to show it to the general population. I dont think its a good idea either.. its why I only tan topless in my backyard.Going out in public I dont want to see everyones naked top half. Its not right. I dont think it should be allowed. What next?? People can walk around fully naked?? I have to see peoples cocks and pussys!! Unless its Mr. U's I SAY NO THANKS!!!!!

So all the women who go topless at the beach are immoral?

Huh?

Originally Posted By: StephieJ

I get what you're saying.. You want a girlfriend with morals. Someone who respects their body enough that they dont need to show it to the general population.
So, when women go topless on a beach where it's okay, that makes them immoral? Does that include nursing mothers?

That's the perfect example of what sdp was trying to explain earlier: people chose to not disconnect the the nude body with sexuality. Boobs are a sexual tool, but only if you put it in that context.

Funny thing, I spent the whole day at the beach yesterday. I didn't see topless women, but I did see a penis. A man on the beach dropped trou and changed into his trunks right on the beach.

Does that make him immoral? Was I turned on? No.

It doesnt make them IMMORAL.. but i believe everyone has different morals for themselves. Somethings that you may find OK .. I may think is absolutely wrong ans dispicable.. and vice versa. Seeing a woman walking around with her tits hanging out is VERY different than one feeding their child. DUH!!! THAT is the purpose of a breast.. THAT should be the only time it should be exposed in public.Imagine if you were a mother and you took your children to the park and there are women walking around topless? Maybe this is something you wouldnt want your children exposed to.. people should keep their private parts private.. and should only expose them in their PERSONAL areas.

It doesnt make them IMMORAL.. Then you need to watch how that word is used. You said, rune is looking for a girl with morals, but then a topless girl would make her NOT have morals according to you. Can't have it both ways.I understand that you don't like it and I too think topless "anywhere" is too much. I don't have a problem with it at the beach though.. But then again ... what's the difference?I never thought you to be so prudish, Steph.

And yet here you are aggressively questioning those who are against how you feel about it, and attacking them anytime they appear to be claiming to place these people on a standard different from there own. At the same time you defame them as "prudes" because they don't fit your ideology of how people should interact as a society.Just like how you clamor so begrudgingly to ideologies of society that are "all in the mind", morality is just such a creation. The real world has no morals or obligations. Morals are ideas created by people or religions for those that have that faith. Different people have different morals. In other words, she can say she places herself on a different level of morals than the woman in the article because SHE has a different set of morals than both you and the woman in the article.SDP, to be an administrator of this supposedly open forum you are being a ridiculous hypocrite.

Quote:Imagine if you were a mother and you took your children to the park and there are women walking around topless?Even I know there are limitations. But I just think that demeaning someone who are comfortable with their bodies in a reasonable setting is a bit unfair.

Oh get a grip dude and quit getting your panties all in a twist...Go for a walk an settle down.I'm not attacking her.. Just questioning. You either think it's immoral or not.I've known her all long time and I can mess with her without you getting all in a tizzy.And yes it is an open forum open for questioning. Just ask Thor.

LOL.. I don't understand what you were saying. More freeing???

I was never in a tizzy I was merely pointing out your own ridiculous rhetoric. It's disturbing after I had pegged you to have more common sense than you're showing.

Besides, judging by you asking some of the most foolish questions of me I think I have ever had to hear in this thread or any forum for that matter, I would hope that you were the one getting in a tizzy and that you really don't think this irrationally all the time. :tired_face:

Oh Im not prudish.Ive just been stared at by guys since I was 14 having D's and now DD's.I dont have to walk around topless without getting stares.I guess Im not that comfortable being topless around men or the general public for that matter because everyone comments about my boobs. I MEAN EVERYONE. family, friends, men, drunk men..

Go have a cookie and go to bed... LOL

Well, big boobs or not, you've got the looks, so I'm not surprised.