Am I too paranoid what do you think?

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But my doctor knows my dad and I think he would call him.
And I also dont understand what does he have to do with sex?
Without a gf I also cant have sex and usually women dont like me
for unknown reasons. :frowning:
I think I'm simply not cool enough or something like that. Women want cool friends who elevate their status it's all about calculations.

not all women want cool guys. sounds like you're in high school or something. And doctors are not allowed to discuss anything with anyone. they could lose their medical license. Dude, seriously, you're "25" apparently? then who cares if you dad knows you think about sex and want to do it ?

My dad cares about it. He wants me to be a good guy and discipline myself and not act foolish like normal people.

Well I guess I'm pretty foolish for having a sex life. You seem pretty "normal", masturbating into grocery bags and all!

It was a plastic trash bag and I was not masturbation IN it I was using it only for increased safety!

umm dude trash bags don't protect YOU they help protect the environment by putting trash in them instead of the ground.

but they are waterproof!

so your dick shoots water? Is that like a sick Pokemon joke or something? Should I name you Squirtle?

ashley please you're really scaring me now.i didn't think about this. i thought if i wrap this thing in a few waterproof plastic bags and make a knot at the end so that nothing can get out or in then I'm protcted when touching it and sticking my head in there but now I think what if waterproof doesn't mean that a virus cannot get through. What if there was a virus on this thing and it can simply penetrate through the plastic because it was too thin? what if through the vibration it can simply fly through the air? i didnt think about this and i also hold it with my hand while i used it so my hand was only protected by the plastic bags.

Alright, dude, seriously. If you're that worried, throw them away and never buy them again. Also, there's a good chance that the change you get from buying something at the store has more germs on it than these did.You're being ridiculous.

I threw it away. But I don't think the chance is that small.You simply can't sell stuff like that. Who would want to riskthat? Would you use a Fleslight insert if it was sold to you without wrapping and supposedly now? Of course not.

Geez! 1. When you had doubts about it why didn't you contact the online store and ask for a replacement or refund immediately? You shouldn't have used it after checking the package and finding that it has been tampered. Why use it and get paranoid about it now? 2. There are worse diseases one can get more easily than AIDS. What the heck is safe in this contaminated/polluted world? You get diseases from things you wouldn't think as dangerous. Stop being so paranoid. If you are worried, then ask your doc to do the tests. You can tell him you feel worried and just want to clear your doubts. You can also tell your doc to keep the things you talk to him "confidential" before you speak, if not see another doc. 3. Don't order online. Go to a store, chose what you want, check the package well and buy when you are 100% satisfied. That's a better way. You can buy what you like and be happy when using it.The chances of getting an HIV from sex, body fluids or shared needles (syringes or tattoo ones) is higher than getting it from a sex toy received by mail. Many microbes cannot survive if there is no "medium" for them to thrive. They need favorable temperature too. Many will not survive very long outside their "home". PS: As I read your posts, more I feel you are not "25".

A refund wouldn't have changed much. They would simply have sent me another one also without seal cause they have no seals.I also emailed the damn shop and asked them about their return policy and the safety of toys and these assholes did not even reply can you believe that?

Either find an online shop that is "trust worthy" or buy at a local shop next time. I ordered some RAM once, paid the $$ but the online shop guy never sent it. I lost my $$, no refund, no RAM. Things like this happen sometimes when shopping online.

A local shop is not different. The problem is that the manufacturer does not seal the toys in a safe way! So it doesn't matter where you buy them they could always be used.

Have you ever thought of buying some sex toy cleaner???

Then don't buy it. Simple as that. Saves $$ and no more paranoid thoughts.

i dont know if a sex toy cleaner kills viruses i think it only kills bacteria

:(ANY REPUTABLE SEX TOY STORE WOULDN'T TAKE BACK PERSONAL SEX OR HYGENE PRODUCTS ANY MORE THAN A DEPARTMENT TAKING BACK A PAIR OF SPEEDOS OR BRIEFS.I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR CONCERN AND BY WASHING THEM IN A BLEACHED WATER WITH DETERGENT SHOULD CLEAN THE ITEMS BUT LET THE BUYER BEWARE,VOICE YOUR CONCERNS TO THE PROPRIETOR EITHER IN PERSON OR WRITING,THE BBB BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU AND THEN AS LAST RESORT THE CITY LICENSING AND STATE LICENSING AUTHORITY.ENJOY THE PLEASURING AND KEEP THE BATTERIES CHARGED!:):)

Hi. I think it's really strange that of all the different sex toy shops I emailed and asked them about their return policy only 2 replied. If they other ones have nothing to hide why did they not reply? And those 2 which replied totally understood my concerns and said they do not accept returned products which aren't sealed anymore but what if they weren't sealed in the first place? I think this is really problematic.