i really like this girl but she doesnt like me. ive liked her since 7th grade (im in 9th now) last year i asked her out and she said no because she doent like me like that. i kinda wanna ask her again but im afraid she'll think im obsessed or something. should i ask her again, and if she says no again is there something i can do to get her to like me or am i totally screwed? please help!
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Help with girl plz
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yeah, it is dead. if she says no and it has been a year, drop it. You could have had a chance if you had stayed close, and been her best of friends.
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well ive noticedc shes been starng at me alot more. i dont know whether its bcuz she thinks of me differently now that ive asked her out or if its because she likes me.....
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it is not b/c she likes you......it may be that she thinks you are a little obsessive especially if you have been actively showing your love for her. I would let it go, I know what kind of pain it is, but it is dead. i mean you would try to ride a horse if it was dead, right?
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after i aked her out i just about got over her and then just recently everything has been reminding me of her... i just cant get over it cry
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Me and you both on that, i recentley went through something similar to what you did i made a mistkae of asking her out again.. BIG MISTAKE once a girl says no basically it means that there won't be anything more than mates between you. As for getting over someone you loved, it is really hard there are plenty of posts on that including mine:http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=129524&page=1&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1also this one by websex is really helpful:http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=98407&page=9&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1hope things work out, JaXx
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thanks for the attempt but those didnt help much :frowning: