I need an answer

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ok i no this is gonna sound perverted but im 12 and I havent ever masturbated before but one of my friends told me it was fun and that i sshould come here for help&advice, but anyway I want to know what is the best way to masturbate ... and i wanted to know why i cant selfsuck (i'm uncircumscied), can someone please help me!!

i'll let the guys here help you out with the masturbation as i'm a woman, but as for self sucking...not everyone can do it, i would regard it as a talent, just because you're skinny doesn't mean that you should be able to do it, as a woman i'm just personally turned off by hearing about all this self sucking

I've "self-scuked" a few times but it has never really done it for me.I just masturbate the regular "fist" way. I do't really feel the need to use different ways to masturbate, but I often do something new when i'm in the mood.

Selfsucking is pretty advanced. Your body isn't exactly designed to do it, although it can be done. I don't recommend making that a goal if you are just starting to masturbate. If you make that your primary method of getting off without doing it the typical ways, I think you're setting yourself up to be disappointed. You should just learn to enjoy yourself and get a good idea of how your body works and responds to certain stimuli. It is an amazing process of self-discovery that will help you when dealing with others sexually later in life.

ooo, so not everyone can selfsuck, hmm ... o well

That's right, most guys can't do it. I cant't get anywhere near.

Well, I've tried self-sucking, I got pretty close, but I gave up, it's just not for me! Anyway, to answer ShadowDude's question, there is no 'best way' to masturbate, everyone has their own way to, but generally for men, it's to hold your 'manhood' and rythmically stroke it up and down. If you want more info, look on the Masturbation Section of Afraidtoask.com, they have some good info.

What you can do is go to jackinworld.com, there you will see many techniques, and u may try them and see which one you like best

jackinworld.com is a good site. i have used lots of there techniques.back to read the forum, i forgot the question

it doesn't sound perverted at all!for one, self-sucking is a good technique i like to use, and most men would like to do it. i know if you are good at streching, that helps. just do what i did and you will be fine, and be able to suck in no time at all.1. Push your selfa little further each day, but don't try to get your dick to your mouth, YET.2. You can also practice yoga, it helps a lot. a. do most of the back related stretches3. When you think you can get to sucking, then try, but only pull yourself to your dick, dont pull your mouth to. It hurts a lot when you injure your mouth that way, popping the jaw.4. Try the "upside down C" posistion first, recommonended for beginners, and "foward C" later, and finally "stand and suck" much later.Hope this helps!If none of this works, wait for someone to suck your dick for you, and for you, that might take a few years, age wise.

I sure wish I could do that when I was 14. If I hadn't stopped... Over the past couple of years I have become practically obsessed with it. I overdid it last week and my back still hurts.

GUESS what!? I got about an inch closer to actually self sucking! I'm trying again tonight, wish me luck!!!

Good Luck!!

Got for it, but be careful. It's awfully easy to hurt your back. I overdid it and it might be a week or two before I can even think of doing it again.

i'm not reallly for the whole concept of self sucking i mean i pissed with it i cant bear the fact putting that in my mouth... i'm not saying it wrong.. it just doesn't suit me

You pissed with it??? But it's ok for a girl to suck on it though.. That's different huh.

Well, I tried, and now my back feels like there's a Frenchman living in it! It really hurts, should've listened to you guys about back pain......heh.....ow.

Frenchman! Heh! Sorry, that comment is just incredibly funny

So don't do it. I never suggested you should.

Of course, you should wash anything before you put it in your mouth.

It will do that. Your body needs to get used to it. It's sort of like lifting weights, although I think there more potential for serious injury if you're not careful.Take it easy, soak in hot water or put on one of those icyhot bandages and take some aspirin or something. It ought to get better.