Am i going to hell(read first post)

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OK heres what happened to day i went to a Christian chat room on yahoo and i saidIn reply to: Any body at all wana talk to a BI 14-m-NJ who is Christian and then almost the whole room said your going to hell unless you change ect. and even one guy said you should go kill your self because GOD hates (when i read that i laughed so hard i fell off my chair).And now it comes to this are all homosexuals and bisexuals going to hell. (ehheheheheheh ahahhah) IS you say no give me a reason if you sat yes give me a reason lolOk ok , I say no because all sins are equal (saying that if homosexuality is a sin if not then I'm in the clear:) ) and we are no different form any one else god( if there is a god that is) made use the way we are and if he(or she lol) wanted to just test a few people then nuts to him/her I'm going to be buddhist.

be who you are, nobody knows if there is a hell, and really that's the last thing you should be worrying about

Hi Jammy_boy!! First off - NO Christian would EVER suggest that someone kill themselves. That's just nuts. I'm glad you just laughed it off - because that's exactly what you should have done. As for YOU going to HELL because you're a bisexual guy -well... let me tell you something. This is what I believe. When Jesus died on the cross - He took OUR place. In other words - He died FOR us so we wouldn't have to die. All of our sins [with the exception of one] are forgiven. What is that one sin? The sin of NOT believing - of not accepting what He did for us. The only people who go to hell are NON-believers. So if you DO believe - does that mean you can do what you want to do? Well.. no. The proof of believing is in the pudding - so to speak. If I said that I loved you - and every morning I ran over you with my car - how loved would you feel? God commands that we love Him. That may sound odd - at first - because WE tend to believe that 'love' is a feeling. But it's not. Love is a verb - an action word. Love is something you DO - it's not something you FEEL. That said - the most important commandment in the Bible is the one where we are all commanded to, "love the Lord God with all our heart and love your neighbour as you love yourself." [or words to that effect] If you want to go to heaven - accept what Jesus did for YOU and abide [to the best of your ability] to the commandment above. We must always be aware of what we are doing and HOW we are treating others. When it comes to sex - a lot of people [regardless of orientation] USE other people for THEIR satisfaction. Where's the love in that? No where. So how can that be ok? It can't. Is there a hell? I don't know. I hope not. But I'm not chancing it. If all I believe is a load of nonsense and all that happens when we die is we become nothing - then I've risked nothing. But if I don't believe - and there IS more to it than 'nothing' - that I'm in big trouble. Many people say that deep down - everyone is good. I don't believe that at all. I believe that deep down - everyone is horrible. It's our job [so to speak] to distance ourselves from our true selves [our true nature] to become better people. And since we can't do that on our own - we all need God. Whatever you do - TRY not to let people decide for you IF you have a relationship with God. GREAT BIG HUGCraig!!

LMFAO!!!

A Christian? Going to hell? Doesn't happen, too bad for those wierdos in the chat room.

You most definatly CAN go to hell if you are Christian. I'm a Roman Catholic Christian, so if this isn't what you were taught, then don't yell at me and say I'm wrong. What I was tought was that if you die with zero sins on you, you go straight to heaven. If you die with ordinary sin on you, you go to Purgatory and pray and junk to work off those sins untill they are all forgiven, then you go to heaven, If you die with Mortal sins on your soul (Killing, etc) you go to hell. This is why most christians believe that non Christians can't get into heaven, becasue when Adam and Eve disobeyed God and ate the apple, they unleashed sin upon the world and now every baby is born with Original Sin, which is forgiven when you are excepted into the Church through Baptism. (Don't worry, I don't think any new-born babies are going to hell.)Anyway, back on topic: We're taught acts of homosexuality is a sin. That means bisexuality too, becasue BIs are likely going to commit some act of homosexuality in their lifetime. But, sins can always be forgiven! Some you may need to confess to a priest, but some sins an be fogiven just by being truely, deeply sorry for them. Even at the brink of death, God will forgive your sins if you are truely sorry.

Hi zetazin!! Based on what you said - I'm definitely NOT a 'Roman Catholic'. [that's for sure] I do NOT believe that 'man' must go through 'man' to get to heaven. Nor do I believe that I have to be accepted into the 'church'. [again - by 'man'] The Bible makes too things clear. [as I understand it] Our relationship with God/Jesus is a personal one. It requires no 'middle-man'. And the word 'church' refers to a group of believers. It does not mean - 'a buidling to worship in'. There in lies two [of several] big differences between the Catholics and Protestants. The route word of Protestant - by the way - is 'Protest'. Protestants rejected the Catholic teachings and created their own 'way' to God. [so to speak] A 'way' that THEY believed [and still do] is more in keeping with the scriptures. Can a Christian go to Hell? Not a chance. By definition - a 'Christian' is one who believes in and follows Christ. GREAT BIG HUGCraig!!

No I don't believe that either. When Jesus died he took all our sins, and if we pray forgiveness (and, of course, mean it) then our sins are taken away. This is essential because we all sin and don't live up to God's expectations, but that doesn't matter. Are you saying that if someone is a killer, and then repents and becomes a Christian, they still can't get into heaven?

Oh I see. I was thinking about a Christian in the eyes of mortals, not God. That was a very big mistake on my part. If you are truely a Christian in the eyes of God, then yes, you will go to heaven.

Hey, don't sweat it man. If you're a good person you don't have anything to worry about.And by the way, why is it the people who are really into christianity seem to be, for the most part, the ones who tell me I'm going to hell?Strive to be like Jesus. Jesus had an open mind. He wouldn't have turned down anyone because of sexual orientation or color. Why wouldn't he? Because Jesus loved everyone. Read it, learn it, understand it.

Some people don't understand, y'see. Many have had it drilled into their heads that they are going to hell blah blah blah and they believe it, even if they are Christians, and they start to believe that stuff they do will make God love them less.

This may be hard to understand but, let me try to summarize it for youBeing Gay/Bi is NOT a sinBUT having gay sex ISBut it's considered a more "harsh" sinSo it would be the same thing as stealing, lieing, etc.But worse =/They say you have to repent your sins to go to heavenBut most gay christians think that being gay is natural for them, so they dont repent and end up going to hellWhat i say is... for gay/bi's to go to heavenfirst off.. trust God.. have faith in Him..Try not to have a lot of gay sex...Only if you find "THE ONE" or you're REALLY attrated to them... cuz everyone has premarital sex (which is sorta like gay sex)Good Luck

Try not to have a lot of gay sex? Do you go to Fred Phelps church or something?

Who is Fred Phelps?Oh, and not everyone has premarital sex.

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In reply to:Who is Fred Phelps? Hi happyhappyjoyjoy!! Fred Phelps is a horrible man. He is a 'reverand' who has a church called the 'Westboro Baptist Church'. [I think] He [and his 'flock'] are nothing more than a gathering of people who worship 'hate'. They often picket gay funerals - like the one for Matthew Sheppard. Fred Phelps' purpose in life is to spread the word that 'God hates fags'. [which happens to be the URL of his website] Phelps is a very sick man - both mentally and emotionally. His 'church' is basically a compound. Most member's of his 'church' are related to him - in one way or another. GREAT BIG HUGCraig!!

Also, a report I've read gave evidence suggesting that Phelps is a closet case himself. It would make psychological sense, making yourself feel better by attacking in others what you find, and don't like, in yourself.

It's sad but true that there are people like that doing things in the name of God, eg. there was also someone who killed abortionists. Sure, I don't think abortion is right, but neither is murder, you idiot. I prefer the websites that claim Jesus was a hippy, not far off as far as I can see.

Isn't God supposed to be all forgiving and full of love for his children. So why do conservative Christian's scream that God hates this or that and everything else? God is supposed to love all of us no matter what life style you choose.

exactly. Well said.