What to do. u tell me.

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The best thing to do is take her word for it! BTW for your knowledge, the hymen can be broken by riding a bike or other such stuff like that, not only be sex. Maybe you are just not a trusting perosn and that will possibly hinder your future with your wife.

FRIEND.. I KNOW THAT HYMEN CAN GET BROKEN BY MANY WAYS EITHER BY CYCLING OR BY ANY OTHER WAY...BUT I JUST WANT TO KNOW 2 THINGS ..1. IS HYMEN BROKEN OR NOT2. IF HYMEN IS THERE,, THAT MEANS THERE IS NO PROBLEM, AND IF HYMEN HAD GOT BROKEN , THEN HOW TO GET TO KNOW THAT HAD IT GOT BROKEN BY INTERCOURSE OR BY NATURAL WAY....

It took senen mintues to type this? Take her work for it! Why do you doubt her? If she is as tight as you said she is then she is a virgin or she got laid by a rodent. Again give it up! If you want to be fighting this you should be doing it with her. Cause frankly we don't really know anything about you or her. So I'd advise you to get off this "stupid" kick and start trusting her or face the possible consequences.

How many times do you think you've asked her?

WILL IT BE VERIFIED WITH THE HELP OF CERTAIN TESTS,, OR SHALL WE BOTH TALK TO A GYNACOLOGIST.. IF SHE WILL EXAMINE HER VAGINA.. ON EXAMING VAGINA BY DOCTOR CAN SHE TELL WHETHER HER HYMEN IS THERE OR IS IT OVER,, ??

Are you ******, the hymen can break from brushing your teeth pratically! So stop being such a bitch on the issue! She should dump your ass for the lack of trust you have for her! And if it happen I wouldn't be the least bit suprised! Can you imagine how it feel for her to know that you don't have any trust for her? I bet you can't! So get over it!!

if you don't trust her why did you marry her!!look i'm a chick and mine broke just from ballet most chicks hymen don't break though sex so get over it.and if she don't wanna put out don't make her you say you love her so much but you tryin to make her have sex with you nice way to lose the women you love.

In this situation, even a gynecologist wouldn't be able to tell if she's a virgin or not.
Having a good marriage means you can surrender all your trust to that person. AverageJoe is right when he said this trust issue can hinder your future relationship with your wife.

Have you ever examined a virgins vagina? How do you know what it is supposed to look like. You just don't seem to get the concept that the hymen can be broken in many ways other than sex. If she wasn't a virgin, she probably wouldn't have this much trouble and pain. And why are you calling her your girlfriend if she is your wife?

well u peoples might be right in ur replies.. and one more thing i have never seen vagina of a virgin girl.. i dont know how does it look like

all i can say is i'm glad you're not MY boyfriend or husband. as all the others have said there is really NO WAY you can tell if a woman is a virgin or not just by looking. there are also no "tests". (jeez this whole topic is making me sick!)your distrust and pressure on this poor woman is just awful and you should be ashamed at what you are putting her through.by the way are you a virgin?

If you truley love her, then shut up about it. Just trust her. And don't presure her into haveing sex with you if she doesn't want to. If it hurts her that much, then don't have sex. Easy as that.

i didn't nor have i ever bleed from being fingered. so just cause she didnt bleed or didnt think it hurt that much doesnt mean shes not a virgin

yes i am a virgin and she is not my wife..she is my gf. and now i deciding wether should i marry her or not...

well u always told me that why dont i trust her as i marry her.. the thing is that she is not my wife as i was going to marry her and now i am thinking wether i should marry her or not.. ans by the way i am 24 years old guy and ya i am virgin . may be now u will realize why i was asking again and again about her virginity ,,, got my point.bye.

man you make NO sense at allyou call her your gf, then say she's your wife, and now she's just a girlfriend? In reply to: we deicided to go for sex,and she is not intrested in sex. "we"??? who is "we"?? obviously just YOU?nice relationshiphold on, lets quote you when you couldnt work the caps lock button: In reply to: [the question of virginity] IS A QUESTION OF MANNER, DISCIPLINEM HONOUR OF DIGNITY so you were trying to rob her of her manner, discipline, and dignity? maybe she doesnt want to have sex until she is married in order for her to conform to your societal views..very hypocritical In reply to: bye. bye.

according to you , what should i do . one more thing if u would have been at my place then what could be ur decision .. be honest and true .

You know what? I really don't think many people here subscribe to your cultural philosophy. You seem to be from a culture where the woman must be a virgin in order for her to be marriage material. Probably, most people (in general) in this western culture could care less. For yourself and your culture, it seems to be a big deal. I think you already got a lot of fine answers. The problem is that you don't want to hear those answers becasue they don't fall in line with your philosophy. I have to ask you a question though.. If being a virgin is so important, why are you even trying to have sex with her at this point. And if you did have sex, and then decided to not marry... isn't she now "ruined" according to your culture?? Seems very hypocritical to me.

okai wait how long have you been married cuz its a liitle odd you havent had sex yet i mean what did you do on your wedding night?

dud your such a fucking liar your not married to her becuz it says in your question in the beggining that she was ur gf. so thats bullshit