Hi there,
When my bf is stimulating my clit either with his hands or orally it's awesome, I don't really know any other way to describe it, haha. My legs get the shakes and I can't stop them, my breathing is really hard to control, and its like heat waves come from my clit into my stomache, and it can go like this for a half hour, sometimes longer. Its so good its unbareable, I always have to get his to stop because I can't take it anymore. I feel like I am so close to having an orgasm its crazy. I have tried clenching and flexing in rythum with what hes doing, but to no avail. My question is from your experience, what is the best way to acheive an orgasm.
I am 18 and do not have a lot of experience, I have never had an orgasm before. Any ideas would be GREAT! :smile: Thanks
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Help acheiving an orgasm
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Just relax and go with the flow, you'll eventually be so comfortable and then it happens, the same thing used to happen to my gf.
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First, try it by yourself, alone. Get a vibrator or use water pressure in the shower/ bath.It's easier to orgasm with a partner once you've learned to do it on your own. Some women have trouble orgasming with a partner because they fear loss of control or some kind of embarrassment. Once you've had orgasms on your own and know what to expect, you'll feel less inhibited about doing it in front of somebody else.Good luck!
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thanks for your advice, When I try myself I just don't get the same reaction, :P, I doesn't feel the same... not as good.. Thanks again, Jordyn
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Don't stop your man! Your so close. Just let him go at it and you'll get there.
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I actually have the same kind of situation/issue. My guy tries a lot of different places, and while it feels awesome, I can't seem go over the edge. However, my boyfriend has reassured me and said that most women aren't that easy to get off and its nothing to worry about. It just may be that it takes a combination of stimulations to orgasm that first time, or just that ONE spot that my and probably your guy will run across eventually.