Jacking anally

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can some1 please tell me the correct way to cum while jacking anally. where exactly do you have to put your finger to touch the prostate? i've tried it but it never works properly.

The prostate is located about 2-3 inches into the rectal cavity along the base/root of the penis.

To find your prostate, you need to shove your index or middle finger ALL the way into your rectum, then push forward, towards your penis. It'll feel like a firmer mass about the size of a walnut, and will feel kindda nice when you press on it. I wouldn't expect to be able to cum from just pressing on your prostate. While some guys have sensitive prostates and can do this, most aren't that sensitive. So it will require regular masturbation of your penis too, but if you massage your prostate while you JO, it will give a much better orgasm with more cum. Also, try like a Sharpie marker, candle, or carrot, to reach your prostate easier. Just remember to push forward towards your penis to hit it.

for whatever the reason when I have tried this with an erection I always go soft. It only makes me feel like I got to go pee. Go figure - some things work and some things don't.

Try this:Once you are nice and hard, lube and insert your object of choice (finger(s), dildo, whatever) in to your ass, pressing in and down against the prostrate. Continue stroking your cock. You may lose a bit of hardness, but don't be concerned. Keep working your dick and ass.The feeling is pretty indescribeable and you will come like you never have before. Have a look among the threads for tips on safe and happy anal masturbation.Enjoy.

what feels REAL good is inserting a tampon in ur ass(while showering) and letting it expand in there before jo'ing. Feels great

In reply to:for whatever the reason when I have tried this with an erection I always go soft. It only makes me feel like I got to go pee. Go figure - some things work and some things don't.I think one should keep in mind that it might not feel very special at all until you're to the point where you're about to get your orgasm. That's when the things starts happen for me -- like an orgasm * 5. If it works for you, and you have your finger or whatever in there I think many of us will feel a greatly improved orgasm, not all maybe but I think many. And there's no way to know until you've had it up there at the point of orgasm. So what you can try is to ignore the feeling of peeing and just go on masturbating (your penis that is) as usual, while having your other finger there. Go on and on until you're cumming and then see if there's a difference. When you're about to come, it's also the point when your prostate starts getting ready for orgasm, and it expands in size/hardness quite a lot, so it's pretty easy to feel. For me it's about as far in as the most I can insert my longest finger when sitting on it. (now that sounds gross :P)I guess the only downside to this is that it can feel a bit gross, and of course you should make sure you don't feel like you need to go to the bathroom before doing this. :PHowever, the upside is that the rectum (the only area where your finger will be) only acts as a passage way for feces; it's always empty otherwise, and your body keeps it suprisingly clean too , although whatever you put in will smell a bit until you wash it with soap. I actually think I've never had anything in that came out visibly dirty.I'd use objects more since it's not as gross, if it wasn't for my fear of penetrating tissues (the wall to your prostate isn't thick so always be careful!!)Not sure if any objects are "safe"? I mean, pencils are crazy and no way I'm even going to try. I'm thinking you'll end up going straight to hospital. LOLAnd although gays will of course also have fun from this, it doesn't make anyone gay just from it -- the only thing that would do that is if you're attracted by the same sex more than the opposite.

if you can aquire a vibrator, it will probably do the trick. I have experienced orgasms from prostate buzzing!

In reply to:However, the upside is that the rectum (the only area where your finger will be) only acts as a passage way for feces; it's always empty otherwise, and your body keeps it suprisingly clean too , although whatever you put in will smell a bit until you wash it with soap. I actually think I've never had anything in that came out visibly dirty. Really?!? Wow - most of the time I stick something in my rectum, it comes out nasty with $hit on it. I mean its been clean up there occassionally, but most of the time its not, even after I went to the bathroom. I would say about 10% of the time I masturbate anally its clean up there. The rest of the time its YUK. I've seen gay porn, and I always wondered why their cocks always come out clean looking. I thought maybe they did an enema or something before filming? But based on your experience being clean up there, maybe they didn't?So has anyone else had my problem where my rectum is seldom completely empty and clean? Is there something wrong with me?

No, it's probably to do with your diet. If your eating certain foods your poo is probably more clingy than it might be for someone else. I have a pretty average diet, and I'm normally alright up there.

When I finger my prostate I usually shove a soapy finger up first, just to get it nice and clean if it isn't before hand. Once I've done that, it doesn't stink of shit at all.

Interesting - so when you stick your finger into your rectum, and pull it back out, its usually completely clean and stink free??I eat an average healthy diet too (actually probably healthier than the average American diet). So I don't get it?

I've honestly never had anything come out of my ass dirty (that I've put in if you know what I mean)...Ever. And it doesn't smell particulary bad either...? I have a pretty healthy diet though... :confused: No processed shit...ever etc.

So I'm the only one who has crap come out on whatever I stick up there? I mean on some occassions, things come out clean with no crap on them, but even then, it still smells like crap. I don't understand how the rectum which passes and stores crap doesn't smell like crap? There's always like residue if you know what I mean. Are you guys trying to tell me your shit doesn't stink?

anyone who sticks an object more than an inch up their ass is going to have it come out smelling like ass

Yeah. Unless you have an enema right beforehand, there's bound to be at least a smell, if not little specks of shit. The thing is to try and stop worrying about your finger smelling crap or worse, being covered with it. Once you can get past the childhood conditioning that shit is dirty/bad/evil even if just a little bit, you can start enjoying anal sex better. While I still find the idea of shit on my fingers disgusting, I must admit that probing my ass while slowly pushing feces out gets me extremely excited (though once I orgasm and the excitation is gone I wash that stinky, shit covered finger like there's no tomorrow).

In reply to:I must admit that probing my ass while slowly pushing feces out gets me extremely excited WOw - I thought I was kinky - I think you've got me beat there though Hey, that's cool though - whatever floats your boat

I have the same problem you do. I can't put anything up there without it coming out smelling and covered in crap. I guess not everyone was meant for anal.

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I have the same problem you do. I can't put anything up there without it coming out smelling and covered in crap. I guess not everyone was meant for anal.

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Thank you! I'm glad to finally hear from someone who has the same issue. :smile: I was beginning to feel like I was the only one who had crap in his rectum ever, and the only one whose shit stunk. :scream_cat: :smirk:

I guess you're right - some guys just have naturally cleaner rectums than others I suppose. I don't think it has to do with diet, because like I said, I eat well and healthy. I think it may have to do with the way our bodies handle feces - maybe the 'clean' rectum guys have drier feces that passes through in one piece and doesn't leave any residue in the rectum because its so dry? :confused:

Not to be too gross, but I have noticed that if I take a crap and it comes out like a firm, dry, hard log, then my rectum (and anus) is relatively clean up there, sometimes completely clean. If my crap is moist or soft, and doesn't come out in one log, then my rectum often has crap residue in it afterwards. Anyone else notice this too?

I can relate fully to everything that focus has been saying.It really shits me (excuse the pun) when I can't anally masterbate cleany. I really enjoy the feeling and one day I hope to encourage my girlfriend to use a strap-on on me. However, I don't want to freak her out with the poo.I understand how diet can effect the consistancy of the crap, however, i don't see how it translates into me having to deal with shit everytime i anally masberabate, even if I go to the toilet minutes before hand.

I know exactly what you mean focus... The last few sentences of your post make sense to me.