Cutting

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I know how everyone on here feels. Before I started cutting I thought people who did it were crazy or something. But, now it's all I do to cope with stuff. It is addictive. I've tried so many times to quit but I just can't. And, I don't think people should judge or place people who cut into any certain group or anything. I do happen to listen to stuff like The Used, Hawthorne Heights, My Chemical Romace, etc. But, I don't consider myself emo or goth or anything. And, for me, it's not a ritual or whatever, it's just something I do. It's part of my life. And, I don't do it for show. There are only a couple people who know that I self-injure and they only know because of accidents (me not paying attention to where my arm was). I really wish nobody knew, but there's nothing I can do now but try to hide it better. I don't think cutting is that bad of a thing, It makes me feel better when I'm upset..why is that bad?

In reply to:I don't think cutting is that bad of a thing, It makes me feel better when I'm upset..why is that bad?It's not a problem that you will have to worry about hiding your scars for the rest of your life? It's part of the ritual that you deny participating in.It's a problem because it doesn't address the root cause of your depression. It provides short-term releief, like getting drunk. It solves nothing.

In reply to:It makes me feel better when I'm upset..why is that bad? It's not normal, Even though lots of idiots do it. As if theres nothing else in the world that can make you feel better... In reply to:Your such a fuck head i have never wanted attention my whole fucking hense why i do it where no one can see if you judgmental ass hole. If you want noone to see it then why do you do it? Really whats the fucking point of it? Try breaking stuff next time, its about as useless as cutting, but at least it doesn't scar you for life.

My mom once saw a massive scar on my wrist, but somehow convinced herself that some girl did it to me... denial is a powerful, and kinda scary, thing.I still don't know what the hell she thought a girl was doing to me though...

Why did you choose my post to reply to for your deep analysis of cutting?> If you want noone to see it then why do you do it? Really whats the fucking point of it?If you search for cutting on this site, you may have an idea of why people do it, rather than jumping in with your uninformed thoughts. I'm sure there's plenty of information on the subject on the Internet as well.

Because I like the fucking sensation and its something just for me that no one else can control over me, and when are you the judgment polices? YOU ASSHOLE! I cannot believe you think you have the right to tell me that im attention starved when you know NOTHING! You are an ignorant behaimeh.

Java ignore him, we all love ya hear, so cool the jets. You stay your sweet self and let the angry people go after him.

lol thanks, its just...grr..... lol.

hey it is okay...we are here to keep you happy.

i posted this thread so peaple could post that they cut no matter why they do it,so dont pay any attention to the other assholes

In reply to: It's all in your head holy fuck, you figured it out! I'll inform my friends at the Nobel Committy.Now, go share your infinite wisdom about things you will never experience in the sexuallity section.

well it is a good thing that people can post here. It is a good first step to getting better b/c here you can admit to doing it, and 99% of us will be here to help not bash (unlike satan). I think it is great that this thread was created.

Well, (who knew I'de start it) but indeed I started cutting my wrists. I don;t why its just a feeling inside of I want to let out somehow. Most of the time i get get this feeling when i listen to metal or some creepy song that touches deep down. And i did it last night and like the whole day after I was hyped up and just real kinda frantic. I think the idea just got me hyped up, but i liked that feeling....

I hope you don't blame the music though. That feeds the "moral majority's" argument that the music caused teen angst rather than the truth that people have anngst and it sometimes draws them to music

rape me is the stupidist song ever doneby nirvina... but i don;t by into that the music's fault crap. i happen to listen to the used..hawthorn hights, my chimical romance and they well yeah they do singing about slitting wrists and blacking eyes...extra.. i don;t see it as them telling me to do it. I see it more as they get how i feel. sad is those bands probly don;t even do they just sing about it. same way with the medal and heaver stuff i liten too. and YEAH!! I like that way way better that the bands above that i said. in ways i just feel like i relate to the band..or wutever... it's not music that makes me want to do things to myself.. music is a outlit... i have started writting songs and Ry has beenworking with me with guitar. LOL but we need a amp! haha But like wiht writting songs.. i can say wut i feel like doing and not do it. somethign my (used to be) therpist had me do is carry around a tiny note pad and when the erdge hit i was to write or draw the feelings out. and yea.. it helped. With Katrina, relocating, new home, losing my therpist, trying to deal with that crap and other shit.. erler this week i failed it hurts to fail when i was doing better about it. < with tears!

Well, I'll already have depression and if I listen to depressing music then that basically just amplifies it more, but that is my favrit type of music, but I won't be listening to music while I'm cutting tho.

My girlfriend used to cut and I told her if she ever did, i'd break up with her, and that seemed to stop her from doing it.

Well, now, that prolly made her even more depressed than she already was. But I'm a guy and the girl that I might be getting into relation ship with also cuts.

new user here,all i'm saying about cutting is that it is a personal thing, not something to share w/ the world. It feels good, perhaps b/c it hurts; i'm not sure. I enjoy it. I enjoy the scars, where no one can see. My GF can, but I write it off as an accident. Sometimes it seems tenuous, but i can't stop. I enjoy the site ... quite a liberating forum.

I havent cut since that mistake last month (when i accidently made it some where people could see) and so far i have had great urges to do so, but i haven't. I have people now that need more to me then cutting myself.