Im VERY insecure about my male size(for the girls)

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Well it's easy to say for a girl, or a guy who's not lacking down there.'Zat better for you?(It's amazing how something as small as a comma can turn a girl into a hermaphrodite!)Heh Heh...he said small as a comma.

In reply to: In reply to: I'd agree with Angelwitch on this one, its not the size thats important its how you use it. Well that's easy to say if youre a girl or a guy that's not lacking down there. I think the guy was looking for a girl's opinion in this one. So you're above statement was pretty pointless cos it up to girls to say how it feelsThats unless you've got your own pussy and knows how it feels to have a dick inside it. Maybe you're feel unsatisfied with your own dick and how you use it.Hay-J xXx

yeah the ladies decide. So you cannot say that a woman cannot comment if she is not the one with problem of being smaller. Well as Hay-J said, she is the on that is going to have the dick inside of her. Women know.

In reply to: I think the guy was looking for a girl's opinion in this one. So you're above statement was pretty pointless cos it up to girls to say how it feelsThats unless you've got your own pussy and knows how it feels to have a dick inside it. Maybe you're feel unsatisfied with your own dick and how you use it. What the hell is that about. Lot's of guys posted in response to this question - INCLUDING YOU, YA PUTZ - but you didn't feel the need to call into question their (or your) right to respond, did you? Nope.Why such the strong reaction to my comment. It was very ligit. Not meant to be humorous, demeaning , argumentative, or anything. I was mearly pointing out that, while girls are usually not concerned with the size of a dick, questions like these typically stem from our own insecurities and self-image/body image. I can hear honest assurances all day long from well-meaning girls and guys with 7 inch dicks about how size doesn't matter, but it does matter to me in ways they will never understand. Not how it should be, just how it is.So please, cut the sanctimonious bullshit. Be fair. Cut the hypocrisy......and forgive my anger. Just a strong reaction at you're posting that kind of response for no apparent reason.

I think you've got a great looking dick Adam.

trust me4 dont worry bout it aight they dont worry bout as much as one would think

See...here's the thing...and I really don't mean to sound contentious here...but not all of us here spend a lot of time in chat rooms. So when you space age wiz kids use all this abbreviation and bastardized spelling...well...it really makes for a difficult, unpleasing read.I only say that because I think what you have to say is very much worth reading. How about making it easier for us old fogies? (Actually byrd, it might be a little unfair to say this in response to your post. It's just that one word reminded me of this frustration I've had for a while. So...not so much you...)

I think thats the perfect size lol! Or at least near perfect for me! Remember its not how big the magic stick is..its how you work the magic!

lol, i like all these little quotes refering to "its not the size its how you use it."

thats sweet, i prefer little guys.if you have read the forum about boobs then you will notice that girls have insecurities about their size too.it works in both ways and we all have our preferences but then again my friend who is a girl is quite big and she is about a 38AA and shes a really nice person so boys like her so really you shouldnt worri!

In reply to: I can hear honest assurances all day long from well-meaning girls Hey i am not a girl (im older than a girl lol), nor well meaning - I am talking from experience - us girls don't give a fuck about the size of it - or at least the 'normal' women don't.......i think what people are trying to say is that if the women don't care, why should you, unless you care what the guys think, then hey it doens't look like they give a shit either laffin Everyone hates or worries about something about themselves.............try worrying about something you can do something about cos you can't make it any bigger if your not happy with it!

Okay, I understand that. REally I do. And I really appreciate you saying it. It's good to hear that often.But this is what I'm saying: Sometimes (at least with me) my feelings over penis size is tied up in so much more than just dicks and sex and that sort of thing. It's about self-image. And self loathing isn't just a product of a small dick. IT's a product of years of crap that doesn't go away quickly...if ever. And having a small penis is just another part of that. So you see, it's not something that all of these "size doesn't matter" phrases (even though they might be true) can do away with.I hope that's clear.

AdamFox, why not start a new thread in another section and tell us about the years of crap.

Are you being serious Ineligible, or are you trying in a nice way to tell me that I'm off topic or something?I'm just not sure. Sorry.

No, sorry, I didn't say it clearly. What I'm reading from what you said is that your insecurity about your penis size is part of a general lack of confidence brought about by earlier bad experiences, so I'm suggesting you might like to tell us more about those bad experiences. (I would like to hear about them.) But I'm assuming (perhaps wrongly) that that would be more general and wouldn't fit this particular forum, so a new thread in a different section would feel more comfortable.

Thanks for clarifying that. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't out of line or anything. That might make interesting thread. How past experiences effects your self-image, particularly around sexuality. Maybe when I get a chance I'll start one.

Hey bud, I can relate and if you start that thread, I'll join in.