First Date

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Do you think it is a good idea for a first date if i invite a girl over and we watch a dvd and order some food? Im thinking about asking this girl out, but not sure what we would do as a first date. And this is the best idea i thought of.

It depends upon which part of Miami you live in. But seriously, it sounds OK, but don't order in Burger King. Can you cook?

Honestly it depends on the type of girl she is. But then again you should do what you feel comfortable with and if she really likes you then it wont matter to her what you guys do

lol no, well kinda. but i dont have enough faith in myself. im only 15, and dont wanna burn down the house! oh, i live dade/broward line steve

"i live dade/broward line "scary.....

lol Ives Dairy Road yes, your about 12 seconds from me or so.... maybe less on the about 2 seconds from the overpass that leads from Ives Dairy to Biscayne Blvd

omfg wut if i knew you once eww scary omfg waaaaaaa ok its not that bad... its kinda cool

you go to Hallandale High or in middle school?I go to Dr. Krap High, oops i mean Dr. Krop High....

ive wanted to go there sooo bad and no im moving for while to dania :grr: i go to middle school anyways maybe one day ill be in krop ! w00t!

You guys are all big city. I grew up in south Dade, between the tomato fields, near the cows. We didn't wear shoes very often except for school and things like that. Now in South Beach. Around here you need $$$ to go out on a date.

I have to say that personally, i wouldn't want that as a first date, as it will put too much pressure on both of you. Being alone indoors might give her the impression that something sexual could happen, and make her nervous, and then if your both finding conversation difficult then there will be nothing distract you both.The date sounds wonderful by the way, its a great 2nd or 3rd date, but for my first i think i would rather be out somewhere having fun where there is little or no pressure and i could get to know you and enjoy our time together.

I agree with angel, that was how I felt. How about going out to watch a movie or something, then going to get some food with her? It just gives someone more confidence and the ability to relax with you in a normal situation, rather than in an unfamiliar house with full-on attention

well, i have to wait. she was absent today. but, she is a year older then me and has a car (i dont even have my permit). it would feel weird going out with her, with my dad or her driving. (i find that weird)well, were friends, and i want to take it a step forward, cause i like her and if i picked up her signals correctly (maybe i didnt, im a guy, lol) i think she likes me to.

At 15 years of age you may not have much money. I'd suggest seeing a movie you're both interested in, preferably at a shopping centre / mall so you can get some cheap food before / after in the food court. Meeting at a neutral location takes away / diminishes possible sexual undertones. Go on a Friday night or time when all the shops are open (you can always go window shopping to kill time until the movie - that's free and can be fun) and the place is packed. I think during the first date or so, conversation can be difficult to sustain at times. If you were to watch more than one dvd at your place, each movie lasting a minimum of 90 minutes, plus a break for food, that constitutes a long date and a lot of possible awkward silence. I'd keep the first date short. Plenty of time for longer dates later on. Also if you think you may feel awkward if her dad drives you both, what about cooking for her at your house with your parents around? Best of luck.

for all u girls- do u think chinese guys with da kinda flat faces/noses are ugly? would u ever fall in love with them or go out ?

First off, stop posting the same god damned question in every forum and every thread. this is the fourth or fifth time Iv seen you ask this all just today for christ sakes. secondly, chck the date on a thread before you post a reply. Thirdly, are we ever going to see anthing from you besides that your chinese and ugly and shy?

Holy crap, you woke up a long-dead thread to post the same question again?Spamming the place won't help you.

how me add a pic on my thread?

Take a look at this thread.By the way, you ought to sign up with a new user name, and let your sister keep the one that you're using now.