Hello, guys! I just wanted to ask you what you think about my situation. I really like this girl. We hanged out together for a few weeks and for the last two days we had a lot of fun together, kissed and everything. She told me she really likes me but when we started talking about going out she said that she doesn't really know if she is ready to have a serious relationship... I donno, i tihnk it was stupid by me to insist and ask her more than once, because she says that I am kind of pushing it and now it seems like she does not care about me anymore. Like, i really don't get it, one time she is all nice and really loving, we make out and have fun and then the other time it seems like she just doesnt give a shit about anytihng and doesnt even care!!! Should I just wait a few days without calling her or talking to her much and see how she acts or should I do something else??? Thanks!
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I really dont get her... :(
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It sounds like you are a toy... Leave her and find someone else.
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Perhaps she just went through something traumatic or something.
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Maybe, but you would think she would confide in him???
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when u said kissed and everything, what all did you do? it sounds to me like she's using you to satisfy hormones. and if you aren't ok with that, then drop her.
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we were just making out... no sex lolShe is pretty young so maybe thats the reason why she is acting like that... I talked to her the other day... she agreed to go out with me but then 10 seconds later she told me that she is not sure again and needs time to think... something is stopping her I guess and I dont know what it is...
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try to ask her what's holdin her back?
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exactly how young is she, and how old are you?that may be the limiting factor.
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this might be just a friend with benefits kinda thing. If she cant make up her mind and has to think about it chances are she is just playin on your emotions.