Is this the best course of action?

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Yeah your right about the getting to know someone part... Come to think of it I hardly know myself, maybe I should take a break from trying to get a girlfriend and get to know myself some more. You say I should go after real women but if I get over my fantasy of her would she not be a real women? lol (Just being hypothetical here I'm not going to make a move unless I get some signs of attraction from her)

Sounds like a plan. Getting to know yourself should be a nice breath of fresh air from all of this girlfriend stuff, and you seem to have the right approach about backing off until she shows interest. totally off topic: Speaking of fresh air, the weather outside is truly beautiful here. What the hell am I doing on my computer?!?!

S T A L K E R ! ! !Seriously mate you have no clue, your obviously slow in the head or summit, you've got more chance winning the lottery 100 times in a row than this girl ever liking you.You stalk herYour obsessed with herYour slowYour dumbYou don't have anything going for you in the respect. All i can sudgest is move on, get a clue, speed up and good luck.

Wow, that's all I have to say. It was just a really bad crush...not stalking her jeese that's just wrong seriously but I'm over it now I even spotted a couple potentials.

Max that was a pretty harsh verbal bitchsmack lol.yea that finding yourself bit is good...i'ma go do that this summer...gonna go trekkin thru the mountains by myself (or with a close buddy if safety absolutely warrants).

Harsh, late, and I think a bit factually incorrect. But Max likes to start fires :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

I'm not even talking to her anymore. I'm trying to move on. Hopefully I don't see her in school then I'll have to lie and say I've been busy lately oh well women use that subtle sign to say they aren't interested anymore. Why can't men?

Sounds like a great plan to me. I wish you better luck with your new "potentials"

Okay would this not be a better way to move on by simply telling her to download this song... Tim Rushlow - I can't be your friend here are the lyrics:

This might come as quite a shock,
But I've given it a lot of thought.
This thing that's come between us can't be ignored.
I've taken all I can;
This is where it's gotta end.
'Cause I can't be your friend anymore.

An' I can't be accused,
Of not bein' there for you.
How many nights have you shown up at my door?
I hope you understand,
That this wasn't in my plans,
But I can't be your friend anymore.

An' it's killin' me to know you,
Without havin' a chance to hold you.
An' all I wanna do is show you,
How I really feel inside.
You can run to me,
You can laugh at me,
Or you can walk right out that door.
But I can't be your friend anymore.

Instrumental break.

So, baby, now it's up to you:
Do I win or do I lose?
Will my heart fly or lie broken on the floor.
Well, take me as I am,
'Cause I wanna be your man.
But I can't be your friend anymore.

An' it's killin' me to know you,
Without havin' a chance to hold you.
An' all I wanna do is show you,
How I really feel inside.
You can run to me,
You can laugh at me,
Or you can walk right out that door.
But I can't be just friends anymore.

We can't be just friends anymore.

One of my friends mentioned it to me but u people know the situation better, lol so I was just wondering if I should just keep on ignoring her and try to get over her or show her this song and that would help me get over her faster. I've ignored her since about saturday when I talked to her online for like 10 mins.

yep now that I think about it it'll probably just freak her out, am I right?

STOP!!!!! Enough already, don't send her anything.

yup, I am lol jeese I really gotta stop posting here it's just showing I haven't stopped yet

you're going to be the guy that ends up with a restraining order

My, you don't know how to quit do you?

kid's got heart i'll give him that haha. I was sorta like this in a previous situation...not quite this extreme mind you...but i sat myself one day and looked at myself in third person with all the emotion shuffled aside. The way my mind twisted the facts and bent the truths made me see situations I had originally thought as a wise course of action really being rather stupid and would have hurt me in the end anyway. I saved myself some hurt and embarrasment lol! You outta try it :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

The funny thing is, after it's all over, you can't help but see yourself in the third person. So that's why everything seems to come into realization.