I'm a pretty quite kid, but i want to stop being a quite kid, for some reason i'm always nervous or just really self conscience and i want it to stop... Anyone else felt like this before?
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To stop being shy?
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yeah im shy:) dont worry bout it.i think im out growing it.or getting used to it?dunno.i think all peeps are shy to some degree.realise that and you'll realise you're fine and normal,and all you have to do is what other people do.try to communicate with other people.i thinks its hard for most peeps,really.so keep that in mind and givr it a bash.
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I used to be shy in Middle School. Then I got into high school and I stopped caring about what other people thought of me. Either they liked me for who I am or they don't, as simple as that. It was hard to convert from shy to just being yourself all the time, but it's possible to do.
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As long as you as yourself, then there's no shame in it at all. I have a friend that doesn't talk at all at school, but out of school he doesn't shut up. So, when I think of shy, that's what I think of. I guess it depends on a person's definition of shy.
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yeah, My sister sara is like that. she's quiet but she isn't shy. (but u didn't say if u were shy or not) but not me i'm quiet and shy. even over the phone (HATE the phone) or voice thing on the computer. i want talk to NONE unless they talk to me 1st. then they better be chatty cuz i still wont anser. i'll give the head shake yes or no lol
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alright, let me redefine this i don't understand why people critize quiet poeple.. i speak up when i have something to say but i don't always feel the need to hear my own voice... Unlike my friends who are all pretty loud
people seem afraid of silence
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I dunno why but I'm really quiet too. Always have been. It's hard cuz it can get in the way of making friends and shit, but I don't think I'll ever be a really outspoken person. I have a lot of opinions and crap but face-to-face, it takes a whole bunch for me to get me to say anything personal unless it's family or close friends.The thing is, I'm NOT shy. I just don't...talk. It's weird. Phone is HELL for me. I will IM someone over the phone any day. lol
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In reply to: people seem afraid of silence For me, when I'm quiet people always ask if there is something wrong. Or when my ex was around, she'd start bitching about me not talking. But when I was shy back in middle school, not saying anything wasn't an issue.
