I do not know what the fuck to do. I had to stop being frineds with someone that I thought was my best friend. I mean I did all I could for him, I treated him like a brother. So I help get a job where I work, and all I see is him being goddamn lazy talking on the cellphone in the back, meanwhile we are all running around working trying to get the department ready for out sale. I mean his laziness put so much stress on me, that I had to act like an assistant manager and do all that instead of being a salesperson. So last night I saw him standing around again, and I just completely lost it. I start swearing and shit. I got so pissed that I scared my manager, I even went and punched a metal beam in the back that is part of a short stairwell and busted my knuckles open doing that. I swear if we were not a work I would kill that little shit head. HE never gives a shit. Fuck I want to kick his ass so bad for being a little shit head. Fucking loser.
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Wow! I dunno if I ever got that upset but than again I know how it feels to have co-workers who do nothing. I stopped helping one of the departments here at work because they got tooo used to me helping them that they were actually saving work back for me to do and they would stand around gossiping or talking on the phones. Eventually I just stopped help them because I felt like my help was being abused.Sorry you had such a crappy day at work. Hopefully he'll straighten up.
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He wont. That is his attitude, and I am sick of it.And now I need a new person to take to the metallica concert b/c I am not gonna take him. Especially since i bought the tickets and he never paid me back. I mean I gave this guy whatever needed b/c I htought he was a friend back...well nope...I mean I need him out of the work place or he is going to be injured due to fist by Jon.
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i know what it feels like to have a friend, and you put a lot of effort into the friendship and they dont do anything, it is one of the most annoying things ever, a thing that i dont really understand as im the kinda person who really values friendshipto be honest i think you just got yourself into a rage, is there no way you guys could talk calmly? or how did he react when you did bring it up last time? i dont know, i think you should just tell him how pissed off you are, and how much you feel hes disrepecting you.its a tough call, i was once in a smiliar situation-not work but more personal-things just breezed over which annoyed me and she never really apologised, but thats what some people are just like shrugs
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Well i tried to and he said,"fuck that"i mean it is his bs attitude. Oh well I guess he is not going to the metallica/rolling stones concert now.
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Where is your manager, or assistant managers? THEY should be the ones handling this, not you. Next time he becomes lazy, talk to the manager about it and let them deal with it, since its THEIR problem that their employee isn't working.
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yea I know how it is, all this past winter break, someone who i used to call my best friend just ditched me every night at 7 so he could go to a party but i couldnt go because "you have to know the person" i bought it the first 3 times, but when he didnt even pick up the phone on new years eve i just lost it, he couldnt even have the courtsey to pick up the phone, aparently it was one of those partys that "you have to know the person" which was i know for a fact bullshit, atleast on new years, even if that was true i feel abandoned by some one i trusted deeply, because he didnt even try to get me in. :frowning: