I have this friend who I hadnt seen or heard from in four years up until a few weeks ago. We somehow contacted each other and started hanging out a lot. I'm bi, and she's straight, at least that's what she says. She hasn't had a bf since July beacause she said she just cant find the right guy and that they are stupid. She admitted she has made out with other girls before but just to get free drinks at a bar. She is always joking around with me and sometimes I sleep over her house...we both sleep in her bed. I rememebr the first night I slept over there a few weeks ago, she kept on tapping me and then rolling over as if she had done nothing. She was just giggling and wouldnt leave me alone. I just laughed and didnt do anything back because umm I don't know. I also remember we were at a friends house one night, playing truth or dare and someone asked her if she was stranded on an island, who would she pick from the room to be stuck with? She picked me...and then someone dared her to kiss me and she came and jumped on me and we kissed. It was quick though and no tongue action, dammit. I think I'm getting feelings for her but I don't know what to do. I dont know if she really does like me or if shes just playing around. She knows I like girls. And then, the other night, we were hanging out with friends and she just grabbed my boob out of the blue. Like a million times, then she told me that it means nothing and that she used to do that all the time with other girls at her previous job (she was a beer cart girl at a golf course). But still, why do it to me if you're aware I like girls?? She has told me she luvs me and I make her laugh and she loves hanging out with me. Whenever I sleep over her house, I always have this urge to just jump on her and cuddle with her and whatsoever but I just don't have the guts because I guess I'm scared of what she might think or do. She told me she already got me a xmas present but not to tell anyone else coz she didn't get nyone else anything. This girl confuses the hell outta me and I need any kind of advice I can get! Pronto!
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I'm a girl..does she like me??
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She sure sounds as though she up for something, next time you're together, try sitting next to her and cuddling her for longr than in strictly necessary, and see what she does. Don't try to do anything else until you determine whether she actually wants the contact.. but it does seem as though she would go for it and how old are you two??
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Oh, I'm 19 and she's 21. And sure, I'll try that. We havent actually cuddled in her bed yet, which is something I'm dying to do. She keeps on teasing me, though. I remember once she woke up in the middle of the night and pushed me in a playful way and then put her arm over my back (i was layin on my stomach) and then I woke up and she giggled and rolled over...wtf was that? Haha. Ah, hell, next time I sleep over I'll tell her I want to cuddle and hopefully she won't mind.
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Aww definately do that yeah :grin: she must like you or she wouldn't be like that with you...
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Just remember when you ask her.. she may not feel the way you think she does.. and she might get creeped out and freak! You could possible ruin the friendship.. so just be 150% positive.
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Hey, guys! Okay, I remember the last time I commented, I said I would just go for it and cuddle with her, right? Ya, well, on Saturday night, I stayed at her place. We hung out before we went to her place and we were just driving around and she kissed me on the cheek out of the blue. I liked it. Then, we went to her place and decided to start drinking but neither of us got drunk so we were aware of what we were doing, okay? We talked and talked (its cool, we can talk nonstop for hours and never get bored of each other) until about 5:30am. She said out of the blue that she was attracted to me and likes me but doesn't know what to do, because she's never experienced anything with a girl. She wanted to kiss me (we were in the living room at the time) and I told her to wait, haha. Make her go a lil crazy. Then finally awhile later we went up to her room and cuddled for the first time and then we just kissed and made out for two hours. It was fucking hot. We both don't know where this is going, but we both agreed that we won't stop being friends over this, no matter what. I must admit I'm somewhat excited because I really, really like her and shes hot as hell. I guess I'm gonna go w/ the flow and just see what happens.
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Congratulations, I love happy endings!Thanks for the update, usually people just dissapear.
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wow thats really hot........ and yea she does sound like she's a little into you but that might just be fooling around as u mentioned earlier and again... thats really hot :grin: :grin: :grin:
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aw i'm really glad for you :laughing:
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yay!! Let us know if anything else happens for you two
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Do be careful though. You are accustomed to your sexuality. This is new to her, and she will need time to develop comfort with her sexuality. Another words, hold back on the emotions until you're sure she is good with this type of experience.I remember the first time I ever made it with a girl, I felt very awkward after. In fact I ignored the girl for a while. I eventually became comfortable with my sexual interests and can now enjoy that part of me with another woman. Mind you, I wouldn't classify myself as bi, but I have been with woman and I enjoy it.