I have only had anal sex a few times because it feels so weird. I can imagine that it will eventually feel good. But at the same time I am a little concerned. Will having anal sex stretch out my rectum? I guess I am worried because I know a lot of 40-50 year olds who have trouble holding their bowels, and they don't make it to the bathroom sometimes. I know having regular sex stretched out my vagina; it is not as tight as it was at first. So would it be far fetched to think the same could happen your ass?
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Anal sex
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I know a lot of 40-50 year olds who have trouble holding their bowelsThat's pretty weird. Do you work in a nursing home?There was a thread on that very subject a month ago, and the consensus is that putting things in your rear won't stretch out your anus, unless you put something huge up there.Do you suspect that the people that you know are inserting very large objects into their anus?
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No I don't suspect that. However, I thought it was reallly weird that these people I know were having these problems. I don't exactly know what their peoblems are but I don't want it to happen to me. So I was just wondering if anal sex could cuase it.So the consensus is that I am good to go with anal sex? (providing I want it of course)
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Yes. Go slow and use plenty of lube.
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Steve….I have been having anal sex for many, many years now and I don't have a problem. I think if people take things to the extreme and do things like fisting, then you might start having problems. I have not read any valid studies done within the gay community that proves anal sex stretches your sphincter muscle out of shape to the extreme of one having bowel problems....
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Yup.
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No it won't. I've been with my wife for 21 years and it's never affected her, She loves it by the way (one of a long list of reasons why I married her :sunglasses: ) and is able to cum much more quickly and intensly than by any other means.
Rigpig.
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Ditto Rigpig. My ex had no interest in the backdoor or for that matter, not so much in the front door either. My fiance loves anal and wants it weekly. The way she says "it makes my legs week it is so intense".
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It won't stretch you, it just doesn't work that way, lol. I do it all the time and the only thing that ever changes is it doens't hurt as bad when he enter's, but nothing other than that will change.
