ok guys/girls. i have a problem....i do not know if i am in love anymore. i used to think i was. but now, i just dont know. i dont remember how it feels. how do you know if its love or not? i am so upset over this. maybe its because we are going through rough times, we never see eachother (me and my girlfriend) anymore. it used to be everyday now only once or twice a week. she thinks she loves me but idk. i am really upset, i wanna love again. im so confused.
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You cant make yourself love someone and its not worth trying to force it. In my experience you can have a very fullfilling relationship without truly loving the other person so i suggest ya just layback and enjoy what ya got. Let feelings come naturally.
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It sounds more like you want the euphoric feeling of the "new" relationship. That's not love, that's just excitement and lust over someone new. Love is the committed hard work of a relationship that remains after the euphoria of the new has long gone. But don't fret, the hard work of the relationship, that love requires, is far more rewarding and fulfilling in the long run.
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thank you guys. well things got better out of nowhere...haha this is amazing. an hour after i post this my girlfriend calls me and i am now able to see her everyday again (it had to do with her parents not liking me, we are on very good terms again now.) i now feel happy with our relationship. the post above me is very reassuring. i guess i dont feel like im in love because all the butterflies are gone, you know? i loved that feeling though. when id get butterflies and my heart would race when we kissed. i want that back, it makes everything more exciting, but i guess you are right. its our fourth month, so it explains alot. but yes i am completely commited to her and willing to do anything for her, thanks again. how can i make our relationship feel new again though? i dont wanna get bored...i mean its ok if i do, ill stick with her because she is an amazing helpful beautiful person, but i need more excitementjavascript:void(0)