Can't Orgasm!

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No matter what I do with my boyfriend I can't orgasm, occasionally i can feel tension build up but then it just dies down. We've tried g spot stimulation and are pretty sure that were pressing the right thing as it makes me want to pee when he pushes it but even then I can'get anywhere.

yeh he has given me oral and he does do it for a long time, we've tried with the hood pulled back but it still didnt happen

can you get yourself off?Id try that and work from there.

no

it's exactly the same for me! it's like i'm right there and then i can't go any farther.

Yep same for me. Just can't manage. I've always thought there must be something wrong with me!! I've tried and tried and tried. I think it annoys my boyfriend (but it sure as hell annoys me more), he keeps saying 'hold your breath' but still it doesn't happen. He thinks if I can't have an orgasm then I musn't enjoy sex, which is so not the case. And he also thinks he's doing something wrong because he can't get me there! I just can't get over the edge........maybe there is something wrong.

hmm thats interesting...does anyone know actually why that is?kinda intruiging lol...there should be a orgasm speacialist that can get u off no matter wat lol...thats his job.have u tried viabrator or sumthing

As I am 31 yrs old I have spent most of my adult life trying.......I even have quite a few toys that I thought might work.....and didn't.
But it does make me wonder why some girls just can and others can't. It's quite depressing hearing how fab it is and not being able to :angry:

Wow, this subject really brings me back...

I have been where you are. I remember feeling really wet and turned on many times, but felt I was not orgasming.

As the years went on, 25, 31, 35, nothing different.

I will tell you the first time it became predictable...

But first let me go to where I was before that. I could not really masturbate... I was feeling it was an exercise in frustration... A turn on but no fireworks. I did not masturbate, why?? To feel supremely turned on and no CocK????

Sooo... I became 36 yrs old... Still single after all these years. My dentist pursuaded me that the Sonicare toothbrush was the way to go, especially if I was delinquent in flossing...

Oh my GOD. The first time I put that thing in my mouth... The wheels were turning. Oh Geeze, where else could I put this???

Not the bristle side, but the smooth side... I tried it, and posthaste, no more frustration... Pinpoint accuracy, amazing agility, and if it got really exiciting, change the position so that the bristles gently bat at the clit when you turn it to the side a bit...

WOW

What more can I say? I became a squirter...

Talk about masturbatory success!

And predictable orgasm.

Nice :laughing:

You know, you can get vibrators on amazon.com nowadays. When you say "wireless", do you mean remote-controlled, or do you mean with built-in battery?Edit: By the way Amazon's prices are a fraction of what you'll pay in an adult store for those cheap, made-in-China, plastic toys.

the thing that really sucks about living with parents and being a teen is that sonicare toothbrushes are loud and used by multiple family members. when you go shopping you have to somehow get a ride (usually by parents since none of my friends live near by and i only have my permit) and they always ask you what you're buying and want to see it. and, though i'd love to buy a vibrator online, i don't have a credit card or anything. to add on to all of that, i'll just feel guilty getting one because my bf says he doesn't masturbate any more (probably because of me) and if i do what does that say?

...and if i do what does that say?It says that you have a very high sex drive, or that you enjoy variety. It's no knock against him.He might be a master chef, but you may still like to go to Wendy's sometimes.

of course i have a separate brush part. maybe i'll try that sometime, but it's really annoying cause there is almost always some one home and we have a border that lives right through the wall from me. but if i ever get some truly alone time...

Well it's sure good to know I'm not the only one. I can't either.. and we've been trying for a good time now. We always communicate...but I think for us maybe we need some more foreplay. And maybe a more comfortable place to be. I'm not sure, but I wonder if I think about it too much. Like while it's going on I know how good it feels but then I'm like okay...when is it coming? So that could screw me up a little.

And maybe a more comfortable place to be. I'm not sure, but I wonder if I think about it too much. Like while it's going on I know how good it feels but then I'm like okay...when is it coming? So that could screw me up a little. <<<<yeah, i totally know what you mean. i might not be getting just because we're trying to be quiet because a lot of the time there is some one else here when my bf is over (and my bed is squeeky ). and i'm really scared of some buddy walking in on us when we're in the middle of stuff.