I need help with a problem. I am unable to have an orgasm when i have sex with my girlfriend. I can go on for like an hour before she decides to quit. I dont understand why I am unable to cum. When she gives me blow jobs im able to cum in 10 to 15 mins but i dont understand why i cant orgasm during sex.
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Unable to orgasm
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Clearly something psychological going on. Fear of pregnancy?
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I believe so.
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Do you use condoms.. birth control..?
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I had a bf like that in High School. I always just assumed it was the ridiculous amounts of pot he smoked. Sorry, I guess thats only helpful if you smoked a lot of pot.
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Dont ever do drugs and never have. She isnt on birth control and im referring to when i dont use condoms, but i cant do it when i use those either.
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If she's not on birth control, why would you ever have sex without a condom? And, remember, condoms protect against disease as well as pregnancy. But also remember, nothing is foolproof.
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To answer your question... condoms suck, i hate em. Also im not to worried about diseases seeing how both of use were virgins.
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so you dont use any type of birth control? you may not be worried about diseases but wont you be worried when your g/f tells you she is pregnant?in situations like this its SO easy to get pregnant - dont be silly, wrap your willy
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You have a likely answer to your question, then. If you do ejaculate while having intercourse, and neither of you has a fertility problem, then you're eventually going to have to deal with a child or an abortion. That's a big sword to have dangling over your head, if you're not attempting to have a child.
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Ok... but my real problem was the fact that Im unable to orgasm... with or without the condom.
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I'm assuming you are able to orgasm through masturbation(?). Quite often when guys start having sex it takes a while to start having orgasms. I had that problem the first few times I did it, then I went to the reverse end of the spectrum and came to quickly for a while! I got out of both these problems fairly quickly by just getting used to it. How many times have you had sex with her? If it's only a few just keep trying, but if you have done it many times you might want to try changing positions if you haven't already.
