well people heres the story:as a new year resolution i decided to stop jacking off...and then i got a bj from my gf...and i barely felt it...well i did...and it was my first one...but its like my dick was barely sensitive to her lips and tounge. even my hot spots where male dicks are suppose to be the most sensitive.so heres my question: 1. should i start jacking off again? i hear its "bad" and "unhealthy" not to so should i just go once a week or so? will that help me get sensitive?2. how do i make it so that im more sensitive to her touch and lips? (i didnt oragasm and she was going at it for at least 3-4 mintues...and im glad i lasted so long, but i could barely feel it and i was disapointed in how a BJ feels...)plz help...and thanks for reading/responding peeps!
Lets start here....there really isn't any thing you can do to make your penis more sensitive - however, there are a number of guys who simply "don't get off easily" with oral sex. Your penis does get accustomed to your masturbation technique, style or grip. So, by changeing your technique from time to time you can keep it from being "used to" only getting off a certain way. There is nothing wrong with masturbation and it is a healthy form of sexual release. There is no reason not to - and no reason that says you should because it's "healthy" - your body is going to take care of things as it needs to. If you're not masturbating you may have more wet dreams, then again - you may not. But chances are by not masturbating you're going to find yourself being more horny or possibly frustrated - its all your decision though. Its your body, your penis - decide what YOU want and then do it!