This subject has probably been brought up other times and I'm sorry if it has but I just need help. Ok I've tried to finger myself plenty of times and every time I try it hurts...alot. I don't know why, maybe I'm doing it wrong or something but I don't think I am because i've tried different ways and directions to get in and it just doesnt work. My bf tried to finger me a few times too and it still hurts for some reason. I just wish I knew why and I don't wanna go to a doctor or anything cuz my mom would b like "wtf??". But anyways does anyone have any idea whats wrong because like every time I try it really hurts and a few times I've looked at my vagina and I don't even see the hole that i'm supposed to go in (sorry cant thing of the name right now lol), and i only see the peehole. It gets pretty annoying sometimes and I'm scared that when it's time to loose my virginity it's gonna hurt and ruin everything. My boyfriend is a great guy he doesn't care but I do it really bugs me because everyone on here talks about fingering and bla bla and I'm like one of the few that can't do it cause of the pain. And i'm also scared if I try really hard to force it in that I might damage somethign. Soo if any1 has any answers help would b appreciated. Thanks (by the way, I'm a virgin and 15...and no it's not cuz I'm christian its cuz im looking for the perfect guy and I think I may have found him but it seems like i have a little problem which what my post is all about.)
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Fingering hurts
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concidering your only 15, and a virgin... you could be just really tight...maybe you should try just sticking to stimulation of the clitoris for now...plus, from what i hear...it feels better..
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Do you know if you still have your hymen or not?
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yeah i still have my hymen..probably
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well what exactly hurts...the outside...when u try to push in...or when u do push in.
and by the way...first time u have sex its always gonna hurt. Not unbarable...but it will because it has to loosen up a bit...then it will get better and better the more times u go at it.
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first time u have sex its always gonna hurt.That's not always true.
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im not sure how to finger myself, it does hurt though when i try it...
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I have the same thing, and im not a virgin. I can't use tampons either, it hurts too much.Proberly best to go see a doctor...?
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stop it, ur pissing me off and wasteing my life
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Maybe you aren't fully aroused enough to allow something in. Some girls unconciously contract their muscles down there if they're nervous or uncomfortable or if they aren't ready (aroused enough). Maybe stick to clitoral stimulation and after you are sufficiently lubricated (maybe even buy some?) try very gentle pressure that could lead to gentle penetration. If your body tightens up again, stimulate your clitoris and try again.If you're a virgin you are probably tight still so it'd be harder to get a finger in, and it's probably painful because of your hymen (if you have one).Don't try to force it, you don't want to hurt yourself. Just try gentle pressure on your opening while having clitoral stimulation and try to work your way up from there.