So I am wondering why I do this. When I am masturbating I get so freaking horney over guys it scares me. I just imagine a hot strong man holding me and protecting me. I can like shoot cum clear across the room like I never have before. But when its all over and done with its ok the heck with men I like woman. I then always have this urge to play some music and I like revert back to being a typical male.
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Am I Gay?
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**firstly if you are gay, big deal, personally i could care less if someone is gay or not, its whats inside that counts, and what makes them who they are, not WHAT they are that matters to me.
However im not saying that there isn't homophobia out there, there is, and if you are gay then at some point sadly, you may have to deal with it.
You seem so confused about your sexuality, and i say again, that maybe councilling, just talking, maybe not even specifically sexual councilling , just in general, might help you sort yourself out..........only when you come to understand yourself, not just your own sexuality, can you then go on and live your life, without all this confusion, no matter if you are bi-sexual, gay or straight.
There is only so much we as posters on this forum can do or say, you really need to sit face to face with someone and try and get a hold on your thoughts, and get them sorted out into something you can live with. Good luck. **
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I agree with Angel... Who cares if you're gay? But after reading your post, I was wondering just a few things? You didn't specify your age, so how old arte you? I have to ask you...Have you had sex with any women yet? Sometimes you can fantasize about many things when you're masturbating. Sometimes they are just images and not actual acts being done. Do you think about these same things when you're having sex with women?
You could just be thinking about the feeling of how aggressive, powerful and passionate the sexuality of the male role is when engaging in a steamy sex scene. It might not have anything to do with being gay... Just powerful passion
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I am 30 and NO I am still a virgin . Which does make me wonder because When I am not masturbating and I am at work or something I never look at guys and think they are hot but I see a hot woman and I am like a teenage boy saying wow wow wow oh my she is freaking hot!!
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In reply to: I just imagine a hot strong man holding me and protecting me. This phrase makes me wonder if maybe there is something else going on other than your possibly being gay. Possbily you are sexualizing a need for protection or sexualizing a need for/lack of a strong male presence in your life. This is not uncommon at all, but it would definitely be something you might want to see a counselor/therapist about. It could be the best thing you've ever done for yourself, finding out if there is an unmet need and how to go about meeting it in a healthy way. In reply to: I then always have this urge to play some music and I like revert back to being a typical male. Funny...I frequently have the strong desire to listen to music immediately after masturbating. Is this a common thing?
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How can not having a fatherly role model mean that he needs spychiatric help? Lots of 'lads' grow up without fathers on rough council estates, and they never turn out gay. Quite the opposite in fact, as they seem to be the homophobes.
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Not quite so oppositie - homophobes are sometimes reacting against what they feel within and can't accept.Guys without fathers aren't necessarily gay - indeed it may have nothing whatever to do with it. And they don't necessarily need psychiatric help, but perhaps they have more difficulty on average.
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I'll agree, most homophobes are just insecure with their own feelings.They grew up to be taught it was wrong, and are wither confused or just to closed minded to accept anything other than what they were handed them.as for being gay because you didn't have a farther....yes a more dominant female role may play some part, but not nescicarily, Some believe that homosexuality is not a choice, that they were born that way. And Scientists have even proven this to a point, showing how gay guys react to male pheramones as a woman one.I myself suport this, seeing how I've been atracted to guys all my life, but I also believe that some guys are gay becasue they choose to be, just for the conveniance
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In reply to: How can not having a fatherly role model mean that he needs spychiatric help? That's not at all what I said. I merely stated that he could possibly be sexualizing his need for a strong male role model. I then said that the best way to figure out what is underlying it all is to see a good counselor.Please be careful. You misrepresented what I said and then the enire thread went off on a direction based on your misinterpretation.
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Dude, holy crap....that sounds exactly...and I mean exactly like me. I fantasize about guys....penis turn me on SOOO hard, but after orgasm and everything, its like "I'm glad its not like that" and go back to "normal". I do look at gay porn though.
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I found a great word on here some time back, homosensual...it's perfect, it seperates the sexual and loving side of being gay/bi.If you have that loving emotional connection and to an extent dependancy on the same sex, then ur most likely gayor if it's both, you're bi, etc.Alot of ppl just like sex, in any form, or gender, doesn't really make them gay or bi, they just like getting off.so if you have emotional feelings for guy, then you're most likely gay or bi, if not, and it's just a sexual fantasy..yes you could still be gay or bi, but it could also mean ur just horny and want to get off in any possible way
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Dude, holy crap....that sounds exactly...and I mean exactly like me. I fantasize about guys....penis turn me on SOOO hard, but after orgasm and everything, its like "I'm glad its not like that" and go back to "normal". I do look at gay porn though.SAME! I LOVE to see guys in tight underwear, and ocassionaly some nude pics - but, after sperming, i go back to my straight self.
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ummm...this was a dead thread.
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I know this thread was dead, but since I had something to say...Personally, penises also turn me on, but genitals aside, male bodies (and personalities) really turn me off. I know it might seem weird to some people (no doubt many would call me a gay in denial, but I know myself well enough to know that's not the case) but it's at least shown me how varied people's sexuality can be. The important part is getting to know yourself, your preferences and attractions, and more importantly, learn to accept them (and if those are dangerous deviations like pedophilia or zoophilia, to get help in controlling your urges before it's too late).
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Umm in my thought i think your str8, but you just want to try a guy, i say like find a Guy you can do it with and like see, if you like it then your bi/gay, if not your str8, but thats just my thought