Okay me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now. We are very happy together but there has always been one thing she does that i dont agree with. All her previous friends that she has known long before me she gets naked with them when they change to go to bed or swimming. Regular times to change not like naked out of nowhere. Well this bugs me and she doesnt see why. I guess I feel that since I am her boyfriend it should only be me seeing her naked. Maybe it bothers me becuase well she is the only person who sees me naked but I am not the only one who sees her. We have talked, even argued a little but she still does it and it still bothers me a little could any of you give me some advice or leave a message if you have been in a similar situation.
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Relationship trouble
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You should let other people see you naked.
Really, nudity is no big deal. Maybe you guys can visit a clothing-optional beach together. -
I know what you mean.. are they male or female friends? It would bother me if I was a guy and they were male friends, female it wouldn't matter. Likewise, if my guy got naked with his male friends to change that wouldn't matter, but female it would irritate me. I think that's me being over protective and possibly a bit possessive, it's just the way I am.. and seems to be the way you are too!
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I agree with Amz. I wouldn't mind my girlfriend being naked infront of other girls, but guys... That I would take exception too.
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Well said!
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No her friends are not guys they are girls. Theres no way I would let that go with other guys. She only does it with her girl friends. Like to me I wouldnt care if it was like at a gym or something but like when i got to the washroom to get changed and she is naked in the other room with one of her friends it just makes me feel weird about it. It doesnt make me mad I guess its just more of a posessive feeling I have.
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Now your concern seem really ridiculous. What are you insecure about? Her sexual orientation?Is it OK if her doctor sees her naked?
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yeah, see, a lot of girls aren't that up-tight about being naked around other girls, we've all got the same stuff (usually). She's totally normal.
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If he's ever naked in a locker room, etc., then he's a hypocrite. If he's not, then he's really up-tight. Dude needs a chill pill.
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Ive been naked around my girl friends...Its not a big deal...If your changing or something its not weird. I mean its not like shes having mad lesbian sex with them and leaving you out, she's just being a girl.
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I kind of know where your coming from.. my ex-girl friend was being stupid one day with her girl friends and her friend put a soft ball in her pants and my ex pretended like she was sucking on it.. and for some reason it really annoyed me and made me kind of mad.. but just forget about it lol as long as its not with guys i wouldnt worry. I think basically its just the thought of other people seeing her naked thats making you angry or w/e.
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O snap she gets naked in front of other girls? thats hott, in fact, if i were u........yea.....id ask her to tell stories of nakedness amongst them, maybe if there was a little touching, rubbing, mmmmmm......sorry about that, i got into it