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has been on my mind and I can’t stop thinking about it.You know when you have family members that you've known all your life and then they just disappear and only come back to harass you lol. Um, probably not. Unfortunately I have a nasty/disgusting/dirrty/freak-a-leak cousin. I know those are some harsh words, but this person who I'm ashamed to call my cousin made me want to slap him up and throw him in a lake as food for the hungry, carnivorous, man-eating fishes. NASTY DIRTY LITTLE BOY! I don't know if I should tell anyone because it might cause some problems in the family or something like that since no one really listens to me in my family and he’s like the star player so my vote wouldn’t count against him. But Saturday after I got back from dance practice I had to go to my baby cousins birthday party, my little boo boo chubbles. But it was at McDonalds... come on man. Mad ghetto. But I saw all my other family members there and there's this one guy in particular who is 2-3 years older than me. I'm not sure, we haven't spoken in forever. When we were little since 4-11 we used to play and hang out all the time. Fun times, at my grand aunt’s house in the downtown part of the Bronx riding bikes until it was so dark you couldn't see your hand in front of your face lol. But now we’re "disconnected" since we're both in high school. But now, the tables have turned. He's ugh cute right now. I guess... kinda weird but yeah he's got all these girls following him around and whatever. He’s half Hispanic half black and so I guess people like that… lol but he knows that he’s cute so he’s of course extremely cocky to the point I want to beat the color off him. Like really just commit a crime and not go to jail for it. (But that's different for me because I'm Cuban/Brazilian... wait that's the same isn't it? ... nevermind.) And now that he's all "good-looking" he figures he's too hott to talk to his own flesh and blood cousin whom he's known all his life so it's like hey what's up with that what am I? When I saw him Saturday he didn't even say hi to me so I'm pretty much saying oh ok I see how it is. Almost 3 hours he didn't say anything to me not even a hug, hi, nothing. So the time came when we went back to my cousin’s house and the rest of them were playing football (it’s like a family tradition SUPERBOWL yes!) and I was inside with my other older cousin playing around with the children and watching movies. So one of the guys came in and asked me why am I being a stranger and he basically dragged me outside. When we were playing I sort of let everything slide until this fool came over and tackled me like a bombacluad. But I just pushed him off me and mumbled something in French which I guess was wrong not just because he understood what I said but he says what’s your problem and I told him nothing. So he kept bothering me and asking me what’s wrong and I kept telling him nothing. And he thought it was a big joke and kept picking me up and tossing me around like it was “fun”. I kept telling him to get off me but I was laughing too since he got my tickle spot. The bum. But then I realized he kept grabbing my chest when he attacked from behind and I told him “get off me I’m not playing with you”, you know, all of that. As stubborn as he is he kept grabbing my chest and it wouldn’t have been that serious except I had a huge sweatshirt on which was my brother’s and I felt him through that so I was pissed off from there. But it didn't hurt. I had a sports bra on. (power of the bra!) I called my brother over and that rude one just ignored me like a bimbo. I don’t know maybe he was trying to make me lighten up because he ran off with my sweater (it was freezing and raining; and I was drenched). Afterwards, after I kicked his butt, he kept putting his hand on my thigh or laying his head on my lap like I was his care keeper. And he kept poking me saying “nice bra” or “your shirt is see-through better go change”. Yeah whose fault is that stoopid. I still feel violated and awkward that pedophile sicko. I’m just upset because him along with the other 99% of guys in my family give the rest of us crap about being with other guys and always being concerned about what we’re wearing aka “fever”. And now he turns into a… clochard repugnant. I just feel awkward and I’m still really upset. Cousins aren’t supposed to do that. It’s not right. I’m going to deport his butt back to South America. I know it might not seem serious but to me it is because he was like my brother besides the other 3 I have and just having him act like that to me when I used to be his best friend it’s just wrong. And yet I feel very strange. What's wrong with people? Is there something I don't know about? Do people just have the urge to be ridiculous? Nevermind, just don't be surprised if you find me on the 11:00 news charged with the case of murder. Maybe I'm the one being ridiculous but I don't expect these things. Some of the things I go through is like a speck of dust compared to what you guys deal with and all power to you for not cracking lol I'd become the next assassin. It's just from my view it's new, and unexpected. Best I can explain it.

[Am I crazy, or did you post this yesterday?]That guy's behavoir is absolutely not acceptable. Wasn't your brother also around what the guy assaulted you in the kitchen, a few months ago?This guy doesn't seem to take anything seriously. Frankly, you should have slapped him as hard as you could. You need to get out of situations like that...you need to get home. Call your parents for a ride, if you need one.

yeah I did but then I deleted it because I didn't think it was important but I've been thinking about it all day.It's weird because it was my cousin and my brother never heres my voice ever. And it was a family thing so it's kind of like what can you do then? Besides become homocidal.

At the very least, you have to stay away from anyone who's assaulted you, or who you don't think you can trust. Tough if they're insulted. Anyone who betrays your trust like that deserves worse than an insult. It's too bad your brother is so not there.

You should have punched him square in the nose or kicked him in the balls or something. You need to tell your parents, his parents, someone. That is just so wrong. He definatley shouldn't get away with it, and if he does that to a family member, can you imagine what he might do to someone else? Report his perverted ass!

I agree with that.

Can someone summarize it to like...a few sentances i really dont want to read all that

Her cute cousin (who's full of himself) grabbed her innapropriately and was sexually agressive in general. She pushed back, but she didn't beat him up. Meanwhile, her brother was no help.

hey !thats a fool of him to do something like that , i'would also like 2 tell ya , abt something that happened to me, i was around 15 i think (now iam 18) , and i with my family went over to a relatives wedding , and when everyone was busy , one of my cousin sis ( around the same age as mine) told me that she was going to pee (it was winter so it was cold) , so , i jst told here why she asked me , she first said nothing then after sometime she came again and asked me she her how i pee , and hey man i know its really weird , she was after all my cousin sis , what was i supposed to say , i jst tried to ignor her , but she wont let go of me , and u know that age 15 (i was masturbating about 2 times daily those days) but it still was weird , then i said ok , i'll show u but u jst keep away , and watch ( i know iwas acctually kinda making me horny ) , then we went to the toilet , & when i took out my Mr.HAPPY , it was erect , and jst put it back in (my conscience : i guess) , i jst couldnt pee , i jst ran from there , the after the wedding , when we were heading baack home , she was standing there , but said nothing(what could 'hv i said) ,now its been many yrs , but i still feel guilty ,4 showing here that thing ,. we have met many times now , she has come 2 house many times , but she jst never look's straight into my eyes , and we dont talk much either , anyway (i donno if what i did was a sin, after all she was my sis , and i should her my manhood )ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh , it still makes me go ewewwwww

What is a "cousing sis"? A female cousin? In a lot of cultures (which probably cover much if not most of the Earth's population), cousins, even first cousins, often marry.

There are naturist families who are naked around each other all the time. The family grow up and have no problem with one another. It's time for you guys to get past the guilt of your little bit of exhibitionism. I don't think anyone is going to hell for it.

[Note that none of that applies to JapanFan14. Sorry about the hijack.]

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JapanFan14, I agree with HelmsmanN. If anyone touches you like that again, raise bloody hell. Yell, scream, cry, throw things.

Those guys are not taking you seriously, but a swift kick to the nuts will get their attention.

When he was 15, he and his female cousin attended a wedding. She wanted to see him pee. He said no at first, but then relented. He then realized that he was getting a bit stimulated. The went to the rest room. He tried to pee, while she looked on. When he unfurled his member, it turn out to be somewhat tumescent, so he quickly returned it to the confines of his trousers, and ran out of the rest room. Afterwards, both he and his cousin felt guilty (which continues to this day), and their relationship is severely damaged.

Sometimes I think my brother does stupid shit.. just to piss me off.. because he knooows it does! Like sometimes he'll slap my ass.. I know he's not doing it to get himself hot or horny or anything PUKEEE!!!!***** Just to bother me.. But I make it clear in front of him.. AND my parents that I dont like iit by saying.. really loudly and stern.. "DONT FUCKING TOUCH ME!!" and he just laughs.. hasn't done it in awhile !

Makes sense. But like I said before I'm not used to that sort of thing so you could say when something like that happens my common sense disappears along with my self-esteem. I would never expcet something like that from him especially because he used to be the one protecting so I'm just a bit confused why he did it in the first place. And it's not like anybody listens to me anyway, it's not unusual I guess.

We listen. You have to stand up for yourself hon! Tell anyone you know that will listen. I'll go kick his ass!!! It'd be a pleasure. I enjoy putting pricks like that in their place.