so my fiance and i just got engaged.. problem is that he never asks me to go out anywhere with him and we don't really spend a lot of 'quality' time together..
he says he never invites me bc i'm always invited and i should know that.. but he says he's going out to eat, and starts walking out the door... i don't want to intrude if he just wants to be with his friends.. and i want to go bc he wants me to, not bc i want to be a tagalong- you know?
anyways, he's been spending all this money on his car and stuff, but never buys me anything anymore (he used to).. not that i want things from him, but he always tells me how much money he's making and then doesn't do one thing for me with it (like flowers, or dinner, or electric bills - we live together)...
so i talked to him about it and he says he just wants to spend time with his friends.. but thats nearly every night until 3 in the morning and then he comes home n can't talk to me bc he's so tired.. he works with his friends about 50+ hours a week, then goes out with them all the time..
..and its been 13 days since we had sex.. not that i'm in it for that.. but i feel so much closer with him when we make love, and last night when we finally did, i got him off and he went to sleep instead of returning the favor bc, once again, he was too tired.. even after i asked him to help me get off...
so pretty much.. do i have a valid reason to be jealous of his friends getting to spend so much time with him and a reason to be upset over all this? or am i just being closed minded here?
i love him so much, and put him in the center of my world, bc i feel he deserves to be.. i want him to be my everything, afterall- he is going to be my husband.. i just wish we had more time just the two of us.. or that he'd still invite me places and not just expect me to pipe up everytime i want to come along..