Girlfriend problems.

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I've known my girlfriend for like a year, but i recently just got attracted to her, and i asked her out she said yes and such and such, she used to be into alot of drugs, but she says shes been clean along time, and im the type of guy that hates drugs/drinking so should i trust her, she said she would stop for me,so should i trust her? Because everytime i think of her as a person who has done drugs before i get a bad feeling about her, should i trash her or trust her word?

if you really love her..then you should trust her she hasnt proved to lie yet. Maybe if you guys get a bit more serious youll help her become a better person everyone can change by trusting there selfs..so the least you can do is trust her back

Because she said, she now has motivation to stop drugs (im the motivation), i just dont wanna end up dating a drug addict.

Well then what better thing to do then to motivate her? Changeing drug addiction is very hard but with your help she can do it. And if it gets to bad then just be friends.. theres not harm in that

i dont want to get you down, but i once dated a girl that said she stopped doing drugs. lets just say i dont talk to her nemore

now why would you tell him that... lol ...im trying to ...give him confidence not some sad story.. and us gurls arent all the same just because yours didnt doesnt mean his wont and i think that she deserves a chance and if she proves to not change then shes not worth it and move on there are so many other girls out there

Im telling him that to tell him the truth and not hide the possibilites. Why should we hide things from him so he can get hurt down the line. i never said all girls were the same. I just dont trust anybody that does drugs

I agree,with ata7, she could be doing drugs but if i ever catch her, shes gone/

honeslty, with my situation. i date this girl and she never told me about her doing drugs. eventually it somehow came up and i told her to stop or id be gone. well she said she stopped, but later when i broke up with her because i found out she was doing them, it turned out she never stopped.

Yah dude the same thing happened to me. She said she would stop but i constantly found out she was still doing that stupid dope. God it made me so mad.. so i dropped her ass.Apple Juice- like you said.. give her one chance.. if shes lieing.. drop her.

but yea like football said. give her a shot, but if she screws up once shes gone. because if shes gonna do it once she wont stop i gaurantee it.

Well if you don't mind me asking, what drug was she on?