Ok so, There's this guy at the school I go to and we're kind of friends. when ever i see him he hugs be and puts his arm around me. Is this telling me he likes me, or is he just being friendly/nice?
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Confused about signals.
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in my messed up experience i would say this is a positive.However, sometimes its easier to 'see' signals that arnt really there when feelings are involved.From what youve said it could be a good sign, however it also could just be friendly, you may never know.....
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Yea id have to say it sounds positive. i dont generally do that to girls unless i want something to happen with them.
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Ahhhhh…..Not to be playing the devils advocate here…. But guys generally don’t go around and hug girls just because they wanna be friends. If this guy is doing this exclusively to you, I would say he is interested in something more than just being friends... If he does it to all the girls that he sees or is close too, then I would say he’s probably gay or bi-sexual…..
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In reply to:If he does it to all the girls that he sees or is close too, then I would say he’s probably gay or bi-sexual….. Or, a wanna be man-whore.I know a guy who hugs every girl he knows, he likes that boobage up against him and is always trying ot slime his way into ANY girls pants. He doesnt get to often, but he is always trying with any girl.
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hes not the kind of guy thats just out for sex, and he's deffinatly not gay or bi...so this is a positive he probably likes me?
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As the others said, just as long as you are the only one he does it to, then yes!
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Well if i know a girl well i usually kiss her on the cheek, whether or not i like her. but that is just kind of an ethnic type thing i do.
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but i thought you just said you only hug girls and put your arms around them if you generally like them
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There's a difference.. in some cultures, people kiss eachother on the cheek as a greeting. Kind of like a handshake is in North America.
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yep just like paranoia said. i dont hug random girls, i hug girls im close too, and it so happens that they are attractive, so i wouldnt mind if something did happen with them. but the kiss is a cultural type thing
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Maybe it's just people at my school. I hug lots of girls and put my arm around them (over their shoulder, by the way. If I were to put my hand on their waist, that'd be a TOTALLY different story), and all I mean from it is to be friends. I'm not really interested in them like that.
The biggest signal for a guy to a girl is if the guy acts like he prefers you over the other girls. Always sitting by you, always being with you, always looking at you, etc. etc.
