Tonight was soooo embarrassing !! I tried to have sex with my boyfriend and cos I'm a virgin (And I don't.. poke myself or anything) he couldn't get inside me! He could only manage 2 fingers and it was just reallly awkward cos it was in and then when he pushed on it it slipped out And we had to give upWhat can I do to prevent this happening in the future (apart from poking myself cos I don't wanna)? Am I still a virgin if he was in me for a bit but didn't cum and it slipped out?And is it common for that to happen or am I just a freak
**If he put himself inside you, then technically you arn't a virgin anymore.
It could be that you were very nervous about your first time, and when a woman is nervous, even if she doesn't feel that nervous, her vaginal muscles can be tight. The best idea would be to use some lube, and you be on top, whether its with him on his back on the bed, or sat on a chair, that way you can open yourself, and slide slowly down onto him, it won't be easy for him to slip out, and you can control how slow you take him in..........if you feel embarrassed there is no need to stay in the same postition through the time until he cums, once he has been in and out a few times, you could then swap postitions. Don't be afraid to use your hands to guide him in, or him guide himself in, and get in a postition where 'slipping out' is not going to happen by accident.
Most of all sex should be fun, if it slips out then laugh about it and try again, and most importantly relax. **