Hey everyone, Im just wondering if anyone could give me a few pointers on what im doing wrong. I have now developed a pretty good social life and hang out with guys and girls on the weekends alot and get along with ppl in school. Im naturally shy but im working on it. It seems like Im always just a role player and girls are happy enough to have me around as like a filler but none of them really take the leap and try to date me. Harmless flirting that never goes anywhere, which I respond to but no real solid foundation for a relationship. Im certain I can get a girlfriend, but not anyone I'd be really interested in. What can I do to catapult myself into the "spotlight" of the dating scheme without being a complete idiot? Im getting the feeling like I'll never be taken seriously and always underappreciated.
Well if you feel like you can't find the kind of girl that you want to go out with, maybe you need a change of scene. Try hanging out at/doing thing that girls you are interested in hang/do.And most importantly be yourself. You may think you are shy, but that doesn't matter. As long as you are CONFIDENT IN WHO YOU ARE (not just plain cocky) you will find a girl that will be attracted to that, and you then her.
I was in that positon.I thought the girls didnt like me in that waySo one day i said to myself 'Im sick of waiting for her'So i walked up to the girl liked and told her in privet(so i dont look like an idiot) Please dont take this rong way but i realy like you and am interested in dateing you. She said yes and ive been with her for 6 months.Live life to fullest dont wait for nothing do it urself.-kjoman